Real Life Problems

Hello, all you need to know about me is that I've watched yaoi for a long time now and ... I am a straight girl.
I saw a post on here by a gay man and he was brutally attacked by a bunch of people from the straight and the LGBT community.
I think that he made a point in a few matters and missed points on others too.
The yaoi community is growing larger everyday and with large communities comes trouble.
So what I want to emphasize here is this:
To all the girls who read yaoi. Please enjoy it but DO NOT compare real gay people to yaoi !
Yaoi does not equal gay. Yaoi is just like porn. It is not real life. So please please do not go to gay couples and ask them if they're "top or bottom" or any of those other questions that would make anyone uncomfortable.
You can safely consume yaoi without harming the lgbt community. Always remind yourself that yaoi is not what gay relationship is !
I understand it can be frustrating to be attacked only for liking yaoi but please you need to understand that there are a few ignorant people who paint a bad picture for the whole community ! So please try to paint a good picture by your behavior if you want people to consider yaoi unproblomatic.
And for all LGBT people I apologize if i seemed like I'm speaking up on ur behalf but I was only giving my opinions and thoughts on the matter if there are other things you want to add please do !