i saw someone ask the biggest turn off so imma just ask the opposite (I don't know if someone asked this already, if yes please enlighten me so that I can delete this)
OMGG I FEEELL YOUU, I had an ex who I really liked when we were just friends, after the confession I liked him still but a month or 2 later, I started to fall out of love and then we broke up ╮(￣▽￣)╭
I hope things work out but for now have my love and support even tho ur a complete stranger- reply
Perhaps this is a matter of commitment. There could be many reasons as to why someone might lack commitment or not love someone as much as they have before so think about it for a bit. Do you fall out of love the moment they start loving you back? Did the outcome of the relationship not satiate your initial desires? Or do you not find any real mean...... reply
I'm a gay dude and like? as long as you don't fetishize the problematic stuff and the people themselves then I honestly don't understand what's the problem with it. Like yeah a lot of the times bl written by cishet women is problematic but there are really good ones written by them too. Like without yall we wouldn't have "dark heaven" which is one ...... reply
i honestly think reading and liking yaoi is okay, as long as you don't impose your fantasies on actual people. ppl should rlly know how to separate their yaoi preferences from everything else. i get why ppl are saying it's fetishized, it's bc some ppl apply these fictional yaoi stereotypes to actual people, and it's insensitive and disrespectful es...... 1 reply
Yaoi’s target audience is straight women...and honestly, people that say “yaoi is fetishizing gay couples” are being dumb. Look at how popular lesbian porn is...look at how women are constantly being objectified and sexualized in porn, manga, and irl. Yaoi manga is fictional. Nobody was harmed in the process. If there’s women who read yaoi ...... 1 reply
you’re fully allowed to read and enjoy BL, as a straight girl, but saying you don’t fetishize gay couples is straight up wrong. the whole concept of “yaoi” is fetishization. you may not like it because it sounds like a bad thing, and it really is a bad thing, but you’re still technically allowed to enjoy BL. reply
