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i saw someone ask the biggest turn off so imma just ask the opposite
(I don't know if someone asked this already, if yes please enlighten me so that I can delete this)
10 07,2020
OMGG I FEEELL YOUU, I had an ex who I really liked when we were just friends, after the confession I liked him still but a month or 2 later, I started to fall out of love and then we broke up ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭ I hope things work out but for now have my love and support even tho ur a complete stranger-   reply
10 07,2020
Perhaps this is a matter of commitment. There could be many reasons as to why someone might lack commitment or not love someone as much as they have before so think about it for a bit. Do you fall out of love the moment they start loving you back? Did the outcome of the relationship not satiate your initial desires? Or do you not find any real mean......   reply
10 07,2020
If that's the logic, then the same thing can be said for gay people, don't fetishize straight couples in shoujo manga / anime. Ugh so stupid   reply
09 07,2020
I'm a gay dude and like? as long as you don't fetishize the problematic stuff and the people themselves then I honestly don't understand what's the problem with it. Like yeah a lot of the times bl written by cishet women is problematic but there are really good ones written by them too. Like without yall we wouldn't have "dark heaven" which is one ......   reply
09 07,2020
i honestly think reading and liking yaoi is okay, as long as you don't impose your fantasies on actual people. ppl should rlly know how to separate their yaoi preferences from everything else. i get why ppl are saying it's fetishized, it's bc some ppl apply these fictional yaoi stereotypes to actual people, and it's insensitive and disrespectful es......   1 reply
09 07,2020
Yaoi’s target audience is straight women...and honestly, people that say “yaoi is fetishizing gay couples” are being dumb. Look at how popular lesbian porn is...look at how women are constantly being objectified and sexualized in porn, manga, and irl. Yaoi manga is fictional. Nobody was harmed in the process. If there’s women who read yaoi ......   1 reply
09 07,2020
Can we stop this? [Question]
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09 07,2020
This goes for everyone: Stop categorizing mfs by their sexuality or preferences. Its weird, stupid, and wrong.

Onto my actual post:
I get so tired of seeing shit like " can all the straights get off this website? " Said person receives backlash, and they usually respond with a very long list of crimes against the LGBTQ+ community, and a rant of how straights will and have never been oppressed (for their sexuality, cause we all know thats not true *cough* Great Britain *cough*)

Now, I don't see the problem with the crime list. (as in, theres nothing thats good about it and i understand that those things have happened repeatedly and it is horrible)

I see the problem, that certain members of the community constantly attempt to victimize themselves when things like this are brought to their attention by straights. Especially when there are actual people who actually fall victim to things like this, on a DAILY BASIS. Dont get me wrong here: im not saying it didn't happen. Im saying that it is horrible that certain members of the community attempt to try and make themselves feel victim, in response to " straights " protecting themselves against seemingly heterophobic comments, and then others being proud of being heterophobic.

And not to mention when others make heterophobic jokes, straights defend themselves but gays come and attack them bc but apparently straights have no right to be angry because its a joke and straights have never been oppressed. But making a stupid and idiotic joke like that is not going to help a singe person. Im not asking for anyone to agree with me or anything, im just saying that maybe things like this should stop.

-remember to stay respectful plz! Cause I will respond to your comment in the same tone you responded to mine (●'◡'●)ノ
09 07,2020
you’re fully allowed to read and enjoy BL, as a straight girl, but saying you don’t fetishize gay couples is straight up wrong. the whole concept of “yaoi” is fetishization. you may not like it because it sounds like a bad thing, and it really is a bad thing, but you’re still technically allowed to enjoy BL.   reply
09 07,2020

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