You can tell me about a hidden talent, a past experience, your dream... whatever you're willing to
share. I just want to get to know you guys a little more!
As for myself, I have a pet chinchilla who escapes his cage like Houdini and scares me in the middle of the night because he loves to jump on my bed and rest on my chest. ┑(￣Д ￣)┍
share. I just want to get to know you guys a little more!
As for myself, I have a pet chinchilla who escapes his cage like Houdini and scares me in the middle of the night because he loves to jump on my bed and rest on my chest. ┑(￣Д ￣)┍
what's something/question/sentence or a remark that you don't like/hate or get upset about that people say to you ? or something that you don't want people to say to you ?.
for me when I was younger my sister kept saying : you really smell awful
then she said : you really stink like an expired chocolate ...
then she admitted that I'm quitte clean like always take a shower and I'm more tidier than her
but then up until now she is still saying that I have a weird a smell (even my hair) and she isn't the only one who keeps saying that like my mom, my aunt and even my brother
so since then I'm always cautious and conscious about myself I don't even get close or near people
in college I know many people and I have some friends but we just know ourself from afar and thats all
apparently my body reacts to deodorant/ perfume/ soap and gets rapidly immunized against so no matter how much I use them it won't work or at least I need to change them each 3 days before my body gets used to it
for me when I was younger my sister kept saying : you really smell awful
then she said : you really stink like an expired chocolate ...
then she admitted that I'm quitte clean like always take a shower and I'm more tidier than her
but then up until now she is still saying that I have a weird a smell (even my hair) and she isn't the only one who keeps saying that like my mom, my aunt and even my brother
so since then I'm always cautious and conscious about myself I don't even get close or near people
in college I know many people and I have some friends but we just know ourself from afar and thats all
apparently my body reacts to deodorant/ perfume/ soap and gets rapidly immunized against so no matter how much I use them it won't work or at least I need to change them each 3 days before my body gets used to it
Ok so I've seen a lot of comments here that either pique my interest, or just really annoy me as a gay man, and they are more often than not from straight women reading yaoi.
So, I was hoping people could answer some questions.
1) Why do a lot of fujoshis wish that they were gay men, it's really fucking hard to be a gay man. We don't just revolve around butt sex. Is it because of the difficulties of being a woman and dealing with straight men?
2) Why are fem characters in yaoi so looked down on and called stereotypes? I'm a fem gay man, I wear makeup,I have long hair etc, but I'm still a man. I am not a woman nor do I wish to be one.
3) Why are so many fujoshis obsessed with the uke - seme dynamic? Like fem and skinny automatically means uke and vice versa, and god forbid there be switches. Gay relationships are not like that IRL, and it irks me when people say it's gross.
4) Why do you personally read yaoi? Like I read it, but mostly AI, because there's so little gay media? To me it just feels a bit odd, and some obsess over it to the point that it's like when straight guys obsess over lesbian porn.
5) This isn't a question, so much as just asking people to please stop referring to IRL gay men and relationships as yaoi. We aren't porn for you.
Sorry if some of these probably sounded a bit aggressive, and tbh they are, because I'm getting frustrated with some repeated comments I see. Particularly about fem gay men.
So, I was hoping people could answer some questions.
1) Why do a lot of fujoshis wish that they were gay men, it's really fucking hard to be a gay man. We don't just revolve around butt sex. Is it because of the difficulties of being a woman and dealing with straight men?
2) Why are fem characters in yaoi so looked down on and called stereotypes? I'm a fem gay man, I wear makeup,I have long hair etc, but I'm still a man. I am not a woman nor do I wish to be one.
3) Why are so many fujoshis obsessed with the uke - seme dynamic? Like fem and skinny automatically means uke and vice versa, and god forbid there be switches. Gay relationships are not like that IRL, and it irks me when people say it's gross.
4) Why do you personally read yaoi? Like I read it, but mostly AI, because there's so little gay media? To me it just feels a bit odd, and some obsess over it to the point that it's like when straight guys obsess over lesbian porn.
5) This isn't a question, so much as just asking people to please stop referring to IRL gay men and relationships as yaoi. We aren't porn for you.
Sorry if some of these probably sounded a bit aggressive, and tbh they are, because I'm getting frustrated with some repeated comments I see. Particularly about fem gay men.
What's the Myers-Briggs make-up on this site? I'm curious :)
If you don't know or want to take it again, here's an awesome link to the quiz:
https://www.16personalities.com/
╮(￣▽￣)╭ answer away!
If you don't know or want to take it again, here's an awesome link to the quiz:
https://www.16personalities.com/
╮(￣▽￣)╭ answer away!
This is actually the same group as this post http://www.mangago.me/thing/about/33263
(If you are fudanshi please click on the link and reply there)
but to be honest, fudanshis are a rare species nowadays and almost extinct sadly...
Even in the chat now, most of them are fujoshis (cant really blame them) so we just have to accept the reality.. some of the fujoshis dont want to reply on the other post because they thought its only for fudanshi.. fair enough so i make another one.
If you are interested to join the chat, add me on line ID : JustAiman and make sure to reply on this post ok.
PS : We are also using this post to share our profile so that the members can follow each other!
(If you are fudanshi please click on the link and reply there)
but to be honest, fudanshis are a rare species nowadays and almost extinct sadly...
Even in the chat now, most of them are fujoshis (cant really blame them) so we just have to accept the reality.. some of the fujoshis dont want to reply on the other post because they thought its only for fudanshi.. fair enough so i make another one.
If you are interested to join the chat, add me on line ID : JustAiman and make sure to reply on this post ok.
PS : We are also using this post to share our profile so that the members can follow each other!
i'm so tired with life, it is so boring. I wish i was a guy so that i could be gay but sadly i'm not. I don't want to be a lesbian because as a girl i find two girls kissing and touching each other very disgusting, i'm not a homophobe though because i ship guys and if i see two hot guys i would support their relationship 100%. i want to ask do you people also feel like this?
Just bored and curious
Ok so lately i've joined some group in line with so many people chatting about yaoi and life and such.. it is fun but i think its kinda hard for me to blend in because it seems that most of the people in the group are girls.. or at least thats what i thought..
I'm not a sexist or something like that, but i think i want to make a group for boys that are also into this kind of thing, people like me.. if any of you fudanshi that are interested to be part of the group, feel free to pm me or just leave your Line id if you want me to contact you.
[Open for all ages]
I personally think it would be a hell lot more fun if we have friends that are sharing the same passion like us, so lets be friends!
I'm not a sexist or something like that, but i think i want to make a group for boys that are also into this kind of thing, people like me.. if any of you fudanshi that are interested to be part of the group, feel free to pm me or just leave your Line id if you want me to contact you.
[Open for all ages]
I personally think it would be a hell lot more fun if we have friends that are sharing the same passion like us, so lets be friends!
-Whoever you are.
I literally am tired of hearing your stupid shit. No one literally cares about how you want to die then go die on your own. Seriously tho? Casually saying about how the environment treats you but you have someone you love and you care about them and now you wanna die? You're basically eating your own shit. You blab about how you wanna end your life not even thinking about how people "you care about" would feel about your disappearance. Like bitch, not to be offensive but you're basically right about wanting to suicide. People like you should not have existed in the first place. Instead of being grateful about how you're breathing right now and with your condition, there are people that are literally suffering and you act so entitled. Casually saying you wanna die but you're actually finding some sort of comfort that you can cope on what the fuck? Then die bitch.
I literally am tired of hearing your stupid shit. No one literally cares about how you want to die then go die on your own. Seriously tho? Casually saying about how the environment treats you but you have someone you love and you care about them and now you wanna die? You're basically eating your own shit. You blab about how you wanna end your life not even thinking about how people "you care about" would feel about your disappearance. Like bitch, not to be offensive but you're basically right about wanting to suicide. People like you should not have existed in the first place. Instead of being grateful about how you're breathing right now and with your condition, there are people that are literally suffering and you act so entitled. Casually saying you wanna die but you're actually finding some sort of comfort that you can cope on what the fuck? Then die bitch.
I've been thinking a lot about this. Is it mainly straight girls reading yaoi/shounen-ai/BL?
Hey guys^^ I am 20 year old girl who loves reading and sleeping. My mind changes all the time, so does my attitude towards things. I get bored easily but there are few things a never get bored of: manga and sleeping. I am really interested about people who have different opinions about things.
I don't think I have anything special with me but I like to know different kinds of people better
Would you like to share something that you think about right now or what makes you special?
I want to hear something about you guys ^^
I don't think I have anything special with me but I like to know different kinds of people better
Would you like to share something that you think about right now or what makes you special?
I want to hear something about you guys ^^
so im bored,so gimme any user (can be yourself or any other user)and i'll just rate them and give you my opinions on them.Im gonna be upfront and tell you what i think about them,so lets have fun.
Someone asked me this on discord so I’m asking here
I’ll go first: fujoshi was a meme in the first place and if I’m dumb enough to accidentally delete my acc then I’m a loser
I’ll go first: fujoshi was a meme in the first place and if I’m dumb enough to accidentally delete my acc then I’m a loser
btw if ur straight dont bother answering
reading bl is so exhausting for a number of reasons (at least for me) and yes it is not a representation of the community itself so it's honestly fucking disgusting when some would equate it to reality. it's also horrifying that individuals who are self-proclaimed homophobic would admit with their whole chest that they fetishize gay men and it makes me sick. plus the underlying misogynistic theme of a lot of bl titles
reading bl is so exhausting for a number of reasons (at least for me) and yes it is not a representation of the community itself so it's honestly fucking disgusting when some would equate it to reality. it's also horrifying that individuals who are self-proclaimed homophobic would admit with their whole chest that they fetishize gay men and it makes me sick. plus the underlying misogynistic theme of a lot of bl titles
For me it's when the uke is confused/hate/reluctant to be on the bottom. Because usually when the uke is like that, the seme will push the uke until he's willing to submit -_-
The highschooler side couple in Honto Yajuu is a good example of that
I very much prefer a gay bottom uke that's not afraid to bottom and an understanding seme please :)
The highschooler side couple in Honto Yajuu is a good example of that
I very much prefer a gay bottom uke that's not afraid to bottom and an understanding seme please :)
Just want to know the nationalities of the people who are reading on this site
(=・ω・=) Hellooo to my fellow Filipino fujoshis
(=・ω・=) Hellooo to my fellow Filipino fujoshis
I just wanna know what’s your guy’s opinion on covid-19? And has anything changed because of this outbreak?
For me personally, because of the virus outbreak I’ve been washing my hands more than I’m supposed to, and been cleaning more often about everything other day. And school has been canceled and I have to wait, for the teachers to decide about weather we have Elearning . I also have been cleaning my phone and iPad screen often as well it used to be every week, but now it’s everyday.
For me personally, because of the virus outbreak I’ve been washing my hands more than I’m supposed to, and been cleaning more often about everything other day. And school has been canceled and I have to wait, for the teachers to decide about weather we have Elearning . I also have been cleaning my phone and iPad screen often as well it used to be every week, but now it’s everyday.