pan includes nonbinary and genderfluid people while majority of bi people don't date those people (not saying that some don't, but the main inclusion is females and males). bi may include trans people, but it really depends on the person.
but if you think that pan and bi are the same thing, then it depends on whether you care about their gender or...... reply
I deal with the same thing tbh. My friends or mom would as me if I found an certain person attractive and would get confused when I would that that I didn't know.
To me, they are just a person. I don't know them, how could I find them attractive. They are just some dude or some girl.
I did find out that I can become attracted to people if they ...... reply
oh wow, this is a doozy of a question. First of all I'd like to say that people can have more that one label they identify with and be perfectly valid. Also, your gender is not directly connected to your sexual orientation. Going my your example, someone can be both pansexual and non binary and still be perfectly valid, and them being non binary do...... reply
first of all, it's nothing you can decide or choose, it's who you are and you have to accept who you are no matter what. second, you gotta think about a situation when a transgender or a non-binary person confesses their love to you. will you love them back? considering that they might not have a specefic gender, or they call themselves both male a...... 2 reply
I had to have a good long think about this for me to figure it out. I knew I wasn't straight and I honestly should have figured that out sooner based on some things I did as a kid... haha.
Anyways, I knew that I had some flavor of the gay and before I even looked up anything I examined myself. Who am I attracted to? What about them am I attracted ...... reply
When I first started questioning and finally got to the conclusion of “ok so I like girls and boys, now am I pan or bi?” I did a lot of research on it, cuz I’m the type that likes to know everything, and I found that people have primarily two meanings to both of them, some say bisexual means liking only boys and girls, while some say it actua...... reply
I'm a Pansexual girl. I guess it really hit me when I became attracted to my girl bsf. It's simply what gender turns you on, or even both. You Won't Know Until Its Actually Happening. reply
Choose the person you like first, THEN you figure out your orientation. It's semantics but you can't truthfully choose your orientation.
Going the other way around is kinda pointless since you will most likely change your mind eventually. reply
i’ve considered myself as bisexual for a long time, but only recently have i started calling myself bi/pan. Pansexual is technically correct for me so i use it when i rlly have to pick one of the two, but I still use bisexual out of familiarity and people outside of the LGBTQ community tend to know it better. I know it’s a little strange and pr...... 1 reply
