It is totally ok to want to hurt someone but to actually do its diffrent, it has to be reasonable like if they affected you mentaly or phisicaly (dont just hurt someone because yoi want to or they are anoying) the best option is to talk to who you want to hurt about the situation and see if that the problem no need to get phisical. reply
It's depends tho. If they hurt you, like, really hurt you until you can't forgive them, I think it's make sense to have thought like that. But if they barely do nothing and you want to hurt them, then it's not normal. reply
I mean if you have consent, if you mean in a hey random kid on the street can I hurt you type way then, don't you fucking dare trash some kids life for your own sick satisfaction. But if ya'll two adults in full understanding and agreement its, well its your thing. Just don't hurt kids and people who don't want to be hurt or else you're scum beyond...... reply