Hi there! I’m not ace, but I have quite a few ace friends. As well as suspecting I was ace, and being a part of the LGBTQ+ myself.
Yes, what you’re describing could be considered asexuality, but the ace spectrum huge. And although we can help, it’s ultimately YOU who gets to choose what labels you use. Use whatever labels you feel comfortable...... 1 reply
Hey there!
I found out that I am an ace 5 years ago. I am 21 now. But I always realized that I am 'different' when I was 16.
While you experience it earlier than me, I think it's completely normal and I don't think you've been overthinking things.
As an ace, I've never been sexually attracted. I've never experience feeling horny, nor I get wet se...... 1 reply
You're definitely asexual. Asexuals don't experience any sexual attraction, emphasis on the word ''sexual''. You most likely don't know this but asexuals can still experience romantic attraction. That's the main reason many asexuals still have partners despite being asexual. I think you're confused because you thought that asexuals didn't feel any ...... 1 reply
kay so I'm 14 and I've never felt sexually attracted to anyone. I've had 2 crushes but only in a romantic way. I'd like hugging and being physically close with someone I'm dating but sex doesn't interest me in the slightest. I wonder if it's because I'm too young but other kids my age seem to be able to feel sexually attracted to others. Am I just young and overthinking it? I feel embarrassed to post this but it's been nagging my mind for a while -n-
Coming from a non binary "girl", it's not always necessary to put a label on yourself because this sort of stuff is difficult to fully understand. But I can recommend using he/him or whatever pronouns when like referring to yourself or ask a close friend to refer to you in that way. That can kind of help with figuring out your stance on your gender...... 1 reply
You need to take bl out of this situation - it's purely fictional and it shouldn't be that big of an influence on your gender. Ukes are not realistic to irl mlm.
If you were to to think of yourself as a guy without thinking abt ukes/sexual scenarios, how would you feel? Do you only want to have sex if you have a dick?
What are the reasons you want...... reply
honestly, sometimes i think i am gender fluid too!
like, everytime i go on omegle on video call, or meet a new person in real life, every single person i meet says either "you look like a boy" or "are you a boy or a girl" which doesn't make me necessarily mad, but i still correct them either way
and yeah, sometimes i wish i had a dick too or i was ...... reply
I feel the same way like sometimes I wanna be a boy but I still love my female body. Some people just don't care if somebody misgenders them. Like me i have use any pronouns so if somebody used he/him for me i wouldnt really care. Being gender fluid is like being in between a boy and a girl like non binary ur not a boy but ur not a girl. Gender flu...... reply
