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18 03,2020
there was this dude who had crushes on everyone, and he said that feeling died down when he told them. you said he had a was a sweet guy, so i don't think he would be too mean about it if you told him, maybe just a bit awkward tho, and if he's mean about it, then i don't really think he's a good friend. the best course of action is to spill your he......   1 reply
18 03,2020
Confused About Love [Question]
s:) 18 03,2020
Hi.. Soo, I'm best friends with this guy, and he was my best friend's ex. After he and my best friend broke up (bc apparently their personalities and tastes didn't really match), he fell in love with me and asked me out.

I'm sure he doesn't have any ulterior motives and that he moved on already from his past relationship since we texted and called A LOT (I was always there for him to give him love advices, keep him company and stuff)

He tried really hard to flirt with me, but I ofc rejected him... I didn't want to be awkward with my best best best friend :///. I don't dislike his personality; he's really sweet a guy, but can be pretty possessive, which is what I saw when he was in a relationship with my best friend.

When I officially, clearly rejected him face to face, I had a talk with him and really hurt his feelings. I couldn't help it; I liked his friend. And now he got with a pretty girl and we're still friends... But I can't help it and want him to give me more attention..... Trust me, I'm not an attention-seeker, I'm more that kind of timid and quiet girl.. Idk why... What should I do in this case?


I can't just go to him and get him bc he is the type of guy very loyal to his girlfriend and would do anything for her.. I would totally be laughed off and rejected. BUT I'm sure that this feeling goes away after he's single again... Maybe I'm just trying to find another relationship, but there's literally NO other guy to ask out..... Please tell me what should I do? TT
18 03,2020
What ever you do, please, please, PLEASE let them know you have a crush on them before you lose contact with them. I've learnt this from experience. It will eat you alive inside. Even if they reject you, at least you said it and it'll feel so much better then trying to fall asleep (for example) 3 years later when you no longer have contact with the......   1 reply
17 03,2020
All my crushes have been unrequited, then again my being lithromantic (aka akoiromantic) and asexual also made me not want to pursue those relationships. Anyway, I did fall hard, though and it was painful and awkward, but eventually in my case, I fell “out of love”. One of my crushes lingered for years, Took a break from that person, I fell fo......   reply
17 03,2020
The important thing is not to grow those feelings more than how much they are now. Really. As time passes, you might develop those feelings even more and trust me, you’re gonna get hurt even more. It’s a difficult way if you want to get over unrequited love, especially towards your close friend. I happened to fall in love twice this way, both......   reply
17 03,2020
If you are comfortable (and safe) maybe tell her your feelings? One of my closest friends confessed their feelings for me and although I never felt the same way it helped them move on. Like ending the chapter in a way. Recently they have found a great girlfriend and we had a heart to heart and they thanked me for letting them have closure. Unrequi......   2 reply
17 03,2020
Onion
15 03,2020
I’m not a particularly extroverted or introverted person, and I’ve had my fair share of dating experience, but I remember feeling the same way as you described back when I was just starting high school. I would worry that I would never really develop deep romantic feelings for someone, or that if I did I would be rejected.., But the truth is ......   reply
15 03,2020
Blptott
08 03,2020
As someone who has been in the same boat I can tell you this; the more you worry the worse it will be. I used to be EXTREMELY introverted and I hated myself. But here's the thing, someone will come along and see you for who you are. That happened to me and with our relationship I bloomed. I'm still an introvert but I'm not as anxious as I used to b......   reply
08 03,2020
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08 03,2020
i wanna experience this kind of feeling but people see me as a cold person but the truth is i’m just very shy and awkward because i don’t know how to keep a conversation going and... i also get scared easily by the tragic love stories i hear making me scared to commit.. what do i do? ┗( T﹏T )┛
08 03,2020
back in middle school, a girl transferred into the class next door. i never welcomed her properly, but the first time i saw her smile was when i immediately knew i fell in love.

and i'm a former straight girl. moments after, this straight girl(?) found out they weren't as straight as they thought they were.

we became friends through mutual connections, and sure enough, we've only become closer friends through the years. i already came out to her and our mutual friends as pansexual, but what she still hasn't figured out is the fact that i still have feelings for her. well, hopefully she hasn't.

i'm sure she's as straight as a wooden plank, so i wanted to know how people dealt with unrequited loves who they never had a chance with.
15 02,2020

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