Sometimes dreams are us trying to live out whatever fantasies we have of the other person in our head. Brains love jumping to conclusions. Like 1 + 1= ?
The answer is window.
Just because your brain thinks it doesn't mean its the correct answer for that situation. Just try talking to him first. If he's nice get to know him. If he's awful you can ge...... 2 reply
For me I really am uninterested and scared to be in love and while I do enjoy reading romance (mainly BL), I don't particularly want it myself...ya know? Like, I'm totally fine being single af. :v But firstly before I go onto why I'm uninterested and scared of love, I do associate love with marriage in mind since everyone marries the person they lo...... 1 reply
Now that's one confunsing topic nowadays for me, i will turn 18 this year and I had some boyfriends and some guys in my life but they never lasted long enough and i belived that i was just one rlly free spirit or a hoe lmaaaaaao then i discoverd that i'm lesbian when i was 15 and i finally became more happy and stuff but i never rlly kissed one wom...... reply
I can relate to this almost perfectly. Have you thought about moving/acting outside your comfort zone no matter how scary the thought is? I'm just speaking from experience, but I feel you may have experienced "what if" moments but never get to actually find the motivation or desire to act upon those thoughts. It's very hard when you may have social...... 1 reply
I think i'm scared too. I'm 21 and never dated anyone, nor had any sex experience. My life is pretty messed up right now, so i also don't feel very good. I'm not particularly against others but a bit shy, and very distrutful, limit paranoid, so even if i want someone to love or to rely on with me, i think it would be difficult. But i hope i'll find...... reply
To be honest, to me love is too much work (I don't know how to say it). I'm an introverted and antisocial person so when it comes to a relationship it's too tiring to me. Why? Because you need to care about your partner lol. You need to talk to him/her, meet him, hug/kiss him, talk to him on phone, buy him present etc.
And to me (an introverted and...... 2 reply
i do almost avoid love kind of stuff.
when most of my friends have boyfriends already, i always avoid guys who takes their interest on me by treating them 'just friends'.
i feel like i've forgotten how to love since it's been a long time i've lost my interest on love. (i have love for my idols, and it's enough LOL)
i think, it's not necessary for u...... reply
In my case, I'm afraid of not being in love.
"""I love you""" is easy to say and I often wonder if I mean it when I say it out loud. There had been times wherein I convinced myself I was in love for my own comfort. I didn't know it at the time and only realized it much later on.
I'm afraid that I might be wrong when I say """I love you""" That I'...... reply
