(it may become long so....And Idk if I make sense but there goes nothing)
Hasn't it become a habit by now? It may be hard to break but how about breaking that mask little by little? Because being yourself is the hardest thing to do imo. I may have been in your shoes for a while, and in the end I became someone who was unable to speak clearly while...... reply
Nope, but it's harder to find someone who will be with you till the end without sexual intercourse involved. I'm asexual and I haven't been in a relationship since I can't fulfill my partner's desires, especially if he's into that stuff. reply
just relax and stop worrying about people what they think about you and how to please them
and stop pressuring your mind that you are not someone you should be
and its not bad to please others but rather than doing things they will like you should stop that and do things which you like if they like it than its good and if they don't its not your j...... reply
I don't understand with people who think relationship only matter if it revolved around sex. Don't let other people's comment decide who you really are, you are what you believe in. And as a fellow Ace, I am here for you ^_^ 1 reply
i’m asexual as well, you’re doing perfectly fine. everyone has different opinions on what a good relationship looks like, love can come in different forms. 1 reply
So this will probably be long so please bear with me. Actually, I think I'm living behind a mask and I no longer recognize myself. I mean ever since I can remember Ive always acted towards people the way I know that will please them. Its been so long that I think Im forgetting what I really am. Some of my friends even describe me as someone like this and that but I dont remember being what they describe me as. Its like they are talking about a whole different person. I know I should stop putting a mask and just be myself but at this point I kinda dont know who is "myself". That its actually taking a toll on my mental health .
Im like you as well, I have a low libido and I have a partner. Although sex is not a major factor it is still a part, its like a different kind of intimate moment that you and your partner shares. Well as for me, my partner really didnt mind much if we dont have sex in a week or such as long as we cuddle and give kisses. reply
Tell him he doesn't have to like the same things you do, and if it makes him uncomfortable you won't talk about it with him anymore, but that he can't call himself your friend and then say he'll cut your relationship for watching a genre he doesn't like.
If he still insists on it, I can only see it as him being extremely homophobic, or having never...... reply
i don't know if u got it resolved already cuz its been a while but if not I'm worried if he might start some type of rumor so just tell him that it was a prank and if he's like " ooh ok" or sum shi you can quietly drop him by distancing yourself yk ? he should be able to respect what you like bc its common human decency （￣へ￣） reply
