Question

As an adult I love dirty jokes, it's funny and I love sharing it withy friends. But it feels different when a man doing dirty jokes with me for flirting, it feels cringe and really makes me uncomfortable.
Then I realized the pattern, the jokes I'm sharing with my friends are pure humor. Something that makes you laugh when you heard it.
But the other one is pure harassment, and then they told me it's only a joke. They're joking about wanting to Impr*gnatee or some shit, about my body and so. But they got mad when I'm offended and just told me that they're joking?

If you man start lactating

That ain't God answering your payer

That cancer

And they threaten to take legal action if they find their work is being pirated somewhere?

I had a fav BL where the author demanded the uploaders to remove the uploads from the piracy site I was reading the BL on, and since I liked the story and didn't want the author of my fav story feeling disrespected and upset over something they clearly expressed they don't like happening, I just accepted that I wouldn't be able to read it on that site anymore. I didn't want to hold any ill-feelings towards the author and them trying to protect their work. And if they purged it from all piracy sites I'd just accept I wouldn't be able to read one of my fav BL until I can finally have the ability to access it legally.

What would you guy's do if the author of your fav works didn't like their works being pirated, and took it down from the piracy sites you use and many more?