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Being single
As I go through the comments and see all the posts about loving being single and such, to those people, don't you get lonely? Yeah, being single has its moments but when you go to share whatever experience it was only to realize there is no one there, just a big black hole, how do you handle that in a healthy manner? (Getting drunk does not count)
How do I handle it? I drown myself in manga!
I was in a relationship for such a long time and then it suddenly ended. The hardest part was sleeping alone. When you are lying in bed at night with nothing to distract you, it's pretty hard to endure.
So, yea. I recommend drowning in manga. reply
Oh there are times when I feel that black hole in my chest thinking about how nice it would be in a relation or something like that, but it's more of a small sting than a punch in the gut lmao.
What i do is just the usual things that makes me happy with my youth, and I always just laugh about thinking on that trivial matter (relationship thingz). ...... reply
Just because I'm not dating anyone doesn't mean I'm an absolute loner y'know. I have friends and family to talk to XD. Even if I was completely and utterly isolated the modern world solves that with the internet. 1 reply
I think this is more of an issue when you live alone and have no hobbies to keep you busy. I live with my family and have other family come visit often. I don't really get lonely with them around, even if everyone has a SO. Not to mention my 5 cats and 2 dogs. Like other people have said, I just don't think about it. It's not a priority in my life....... reply
I actually dont mind being single since there are some pretty great advantages to not having a partner, and I just don't think I'm able to pay much attention to them. But if I do feel this way one day I would probably make a lovely cup of tea, pull out my favorite book, and sit outside to enjoy the fresh air, or to just do whatever to keep my mind ...... reply
im good, i dont really want to be in a relationship , i can't commit and i get bored too fast. plus its draining to be in a relationship in this situation . long distance relationship sucks. it gets lonely but i still have my friends AND you get to have as many crushes as you want , you canchoose, you can play around a lil reply
getting drunk doesn't count? that's not fair but ok
i get lonely but then i hang out with people and that reminds me people are terrible and being alone is great
also fiction. reading and writing it.
...while drinking reply
Honestly No. I’ve never felt lonely. Sure I’ve maybe wanted to talk to someone from time to time but I’m naturally an introvert and can quite happily experience stuff on my own. I find that I have to change a lot of myself to be in a relationship and where I am mentally and physically at the moment being single is the best possible reality fo...... reply
get fresh air, touch grass, clean my house & lastly the most important prize myself with a pack of potato chip
Honestly, I get myself a dog if I'm super lonely reply
