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why kids shouldnt read yaoi (13-)
i made a topic like this, but i got into an argument with some kid about why its "okay to read yaoi at age 10" so here it goes.
even if youre 10, 11 or 12 and think you have the maturity to look at this stuff, u dont.
yall in MIDDLE SCHOOL. youre young and impressionable. most of these kids havent even been educated on proper sex ed, and they look at this and think these depictions of gay sex are REAL.
they think this is how consent works, or this is how a relationship should work. fine, watch porn, but dear god dont look at yaoi as real depictions of gay sex, or just sex in general.
these kids are the same type of kids that would walk up to a gay man and asks if hes the uke. istg. theyre the type to proudly call themselves fujoshis (in the context of being obsessed with gay men and gay sex, not just liking bl. no one likes that nickname anyways lol)
i didnt discover yaoi till my late freshman year old highschool, and even then, i was shocked to learn it exists. and there are 5th grades enthusing about how horny it makes them?????? stop it fr.
i mean if you want to read bl so bad, at least read healthy depictions of it. at that point, its just romance between two guys. but looking at junjou romantica and thinking thats how gay relationships work.............
No disagreement here you’re completely right. Even then reading porn at such a young age can fuck you up. And seeing this depictions and rape which is a huge issue in the yaoi genre at that age is not okay. It can Desensitize you and at that age you don’t understand the seriousness of issues like that, you don’t understand anything. I’m say...... 1 reply
Maybe it's just me but at the age of 12 I say go ahead and read yaoi but you should have someone or something that limits you. Something or someone that tells you the right from wrong. The earlier you're opened up to the world of the LGBTQ+ community and learn to accept it the less karens we develop in this world (not to early tho.) Personally, the...... 4 reply
Even reading and watching these kind of things (not only limited to bl but to all porn) can fuck up your life or other people lifes unconsciously.
To read these kind of things, you need maturity, which many but not all young people have. Why? Why do you need maturity to read or watch these kind of things?
1. Imagine a kid who watch these kind of...... 1 reply
Sorry sweetie but there are 13- kids more educated than adults. Also I won’t say my age but I’m 16- and I don’t let yaoi affect me. I know it’s wrong along with the fact that I know some basic sex Ed. I don’t look at a man sticking his dick in another mans ass without his permission and think “this is fine” nor did I ever think that. ...... 11 reply
you are absolutely right queen/king/lord.
to the kids that are reading yaoi:
reading yaoi is not cool. stop it. go touch some grass and enjoy ur childhood. some ppl don't even get the chance to have a childhood, and if u waste it on reading yaoi, that's just sad. 2 reply
Eh, I think its fine as long as they are mature enough to handle it but bottom line is, I dont believe that someone is mature enough until they're at least 13 years old. Like if ur 12 hanging around here, maybe you are mature enough but I doubt it. If ur younger than 13, stay tf off cuz you still count as a kid. Learn what gay sex and sex in genera...... reply
Completely agree. However I don't think it's yaoi but just porn in general.
Just please.. keep away from that shit, if its said that its not for kids then its not for kids. It's seriously so messed up like imagining the fact that some kids read the same shit i read is so disturbing. I dont really care how mature they say they are, its still not fo...... reply
Firstly, no kids should never touch yaoi at such a young age. Don't give me the some kids are actually more mature than adult type bullshit. Nu-uh they ain't, where'd they get all their so-called enlightenment from? Tumblr? Twitter? For fucks sake, the probably haven't even had sex-ed what more sex itself. They should be enjoying their childhood an...... 1 reply
