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I’m straight but am I?
Okay so I definitely label myself as straight because I’m sexually and emotionally attracted to guys. However, when I see a beautiful girl I’m like, “wow she’s sooo pretty” and/or if I see a masculine girl (dress like a tomboy?) I think she’s handsome/hot. But I’m not sexually attracted to a girl... for instance I don’t read or watch GL, and I can’t imagine myself doing anything with a girl. Another thing is that when I see a girl cosplayer cosplaying as a male character, I drool over them. And I remember someone commenting on it’s post saying “if you think she’s hot, you’re bisexual”. Sooo that made me think, ‘am I bi curious? Or am I just appreciating their aesthetic and the way they look.?’ Like what would define someone as bisexual. Do I have to be sexually attracted to both genders to be considered bi sexual? And I know, I don’t need to ‘label’ myself with either or. But I’m just confused oml
As someone who is still questioning their sexuality and was also having your same thoughts but towards men/boys, I'd say give it time! I know it can get confusing and you can drown in the thoughts and anxiety of not knowing what you are and feeling like you do not fit in in any group; but trust me, as time goes on, YOU will know what you are and wh...... 1 reply