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I’m straight but am I?
Okay so I definitely label myself as straight because I’m sexually and emotionally attracted to guys. However, when I see a beautiful girl I’m like, “wow she’s sooo pretty” and/or if I see a masculine girl (dress like a tomboy?) I think she’s handsome/hot. But I’m not sexually attracted to a girl... for instance I don’t read or watch GL, and I can’t imagine myself doing anything with a girl. Another thing is that when I see a girl cosplayer cosplaying as a male character, I drool over them. And I remember someone commenting on it’s post saying “if you think she’s hot, you’re bisexual”. Sooo that made me think, ‘am I bi curious? Or am I just appreciating their aesthetic and the way they look.?’ Like what would define someone as bisexual. Do I have to be sexually attracted to both genders to be considered bi sexual? And I know, I don’t need to ‘label’ myself with either or. But I’m just confused oml
Okay! So, there are a lot of kinds of attraction! What you're describing is either being aesthetically attracted to someone (which doesn't make you bi, you can be aesthetically attracted to anyone bc it's just appreciating beauty regardless of gender) or you're just into butch women. However, since you said you can't imagine being sexually involved...... 1 reply