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PSA#5: No, actually, lumping all the fujos together is fine, and here's why
I fully understand that not every single fujo is engaging in problematic behavior. That's statistically impossible. I can fully acknowledge that there is a minority that is perfectly fine.
However, *all* of you think you're part of that minority. Every single one of you thinks you're "one of the good ones", even though most of you couldn't be any further from it. When y'all say "not all fujos" or "stop generalizing", what you fail to understand is that by explicitly saying "the good ones are fine" or however you want to put it, *all of you* will then assume what is being said isn't being directed at you, and will just brush it off and ignore it, when in reality for most of you it absolutely is. Having to constantly try to cover your ass by making sure not to "lump you in with the bad ones" means that the message will get through to no one.
Instead of pissing yourself over being "generalized" and "lumped in with the rest", maybe take a minute or two and think about what's being said. Think about how it pertains to your own actions and mindsets, and then decide if what's being said needs to be directed at you or not. And if it doesn't then move along. But in all honestly, you probably *do* need to hear what's being said, and you probably *do* engage in or sit idly by and allow the unchallenged continuation of what's being called out, whether you realize it or not, because most of the problem people don't even realize they're part of the problem in the first place.
Okay like, I agree but I literally don't care what people read. Even if it's a toxic portrayal, it's not up to you what people like or not. There will always be toxicity in portraying people no matter what group they're in. Like- am I the only person that feels this way? If you're getting offended by people talking smack about fujoshis or any grou...... reply
who still calls themselves fujos tho its not cute, I don't see people being like shotalover888 or hentaibitch lmaoo just say you like bl and go, I acc like bl because its fun but I'm not gonna call myself a fujo but honestly who cares about shit like this, this is turning into twitter, what is even the purpose, calling out fujos? for what benefit o...... reply
I agree with you and want to hear everyone’s opinion. I don’t consider myself a fujoshi, but I still do read lots of bl content (with other content), so I want to keep myself in check. If i have a problem, I want to change it because I’m part of the lgbtq community too and I don’t think it is fair for me to neglect anyone. It doesn’t have...... 2 reply
Almost all the 'calling out' is utter bullshit.
I'm a fujoshi. I'm proud of it. I'm also a swimmer. A fighter. I'm also a nurse. I'm also a gamer. A writer. A lesbian. A brunette. A musician.
These are words that have descriptions for the various parts of me. And you will find these words in peoples usernames across the entire Internet.
How ma...... 3 reply
I HONESTLY CANNOT BELIVE PEOPLE STILL SPEND THEIR TIME JUDGING THINGS THAT HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH THEM!! I mean as long as we ( apparently almost everyone who likes and reads bl) don’t bother other people or you what’s it got with you. Aren’t I free to like whatever I want? I mean if just looking at things you don’t approve triggers you th...... 1 reply
Basically
Op: fujos are bad because the majority of them do problematic things
“Good” fujos: well I’m not doing those things so stop generalizing us
Problematic fujos: yeah stop generalizing us
Btw when I say good fujos I mean the fujos who don’t engage in any problematic behavior but still let others do that without saying anything bec...... reply
oh boy...
mate, if you are the same person who wrote that fujo post before, i just want to ask, who hurt you?
all in all, i do think you stated fact but for some reason it was offensive. idk why but it was offensive.
my answer of the question ended up there, downward are my own thoughts.
(idk if i will get a lot of hate for this or people will ...... 1 reply
"James Welker, co-founder for the Society for Queer Asian Studies, argues that the rise in popularity of yaoi in the 70s and 80s was in part due to women’s own homosexual desires. But due to cultural values these women would refuse to identify as lesbian, and would instead use male-male homoerotica to express these desires (2012). This is support...... 2 reply
Heres your star
I'm getting smarter and smarter everyday(I'm not I'm still as dumb as a door nail)
But yes I agree (this is the first time I have read a whole paragraph on here ) reply
