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Can I be straight?
So, i'm a 21 yo guy who fall for another guy before, like having a crush on him. He flirt with me, I flirt with him, but in the end he got a girlfriend. And then I found this girl, she's so fun. She makes my day more interesting, like I keep on waiting for her text, but in the end I'm the one who texted her though. It start from when I knew about my crush having a girlfriend. I started to like her name that I never called before, I keep on calling her name over and over again. And somehow, everytime she talked about another guy, it makes me feels dissappointed. Or am I jealous? She makes me smile for no reasons, and almost all of my family and friends know about her now. I want to be always by her side when she needs someone. Am I in love with her? Can I be straight? Cause I don't even think about my crush anymore, all that I know is my mind is full of her. Well not all of it, my university life still on my mind （￣へ￣）
That's a question only you can answer. Labels can be helpful and comforting sometimes, but don't feel pressured to pick one. Time will give you the answers you need as long as you allow yourself to be open to your feelings and experiencing them freely :) reply
Sounds like you're in love to me.
You could be bisexual or demisexual or who knows what, just enjoy the feeling and just roll with it. Whatever brings you happiness. reply
i have at least two friends who had boyfriends and are now happily married with kids, and much in love with their respective wife.
It goes the other way around too, i also know someone who went from a wonderful girlfriend to a same sex life partner.
Hopefully we are much more than label and brand :)
I'm sure there are lots of more important quest...... 1 reply
Thanks for all of the answer everyone! I decided to confessed to her, as soon as possible!
And the truth is we're 12 hours apart from each other, but we promised to meet someday, so I have my faith on it.
Distance doesn't meant that I couldn't be with her after all, I could call her, or having a video call with her. When the time for us to meet com...... 3 reply
bisexuality or pan, just know that there’s nothing wrong with crushing on either individual. go with the flow and date wherever the feelings are mutual (and of age lol) reply
Until now, you alway fell for guy and now that your mind is full of that girl you're lost? Maybe you should start to wonder what is love for you? If it's alway thinking of the same person, wanting to be with this person everytime and in every situation, I think you already hold the answer.
If you're disturbed by the fact that you alway fell for guy...... 3 reply
