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being called a fetishizer
girls/nonbinaries that read yaoi/shonen-ai. i'm sure you've dealt with people calling you fetishizers online. even when i prefer hella innocent, fluffy, wholesome shonen-ai's and never associate BL with real life, I still have to deal with this. for those who read the more raunchy content, i'm sure it's worse. do you agree with this critique, and if not, how do you respond to it?
It pisses me off how they misuse the word, they just find a new word and run with it, they don't even know the proper meaning and to be clear I'm not saying that there aren't any fetishizers, but the amount of times I've seen someone bash someone for the things they read and they ARE NOT fetishising anything is too much 1 reply
