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Am I an asshole?
To sum it all, I came out to my brother as being demiromantic and lithromantic. I also told him what they meant and he said lithromantic just sounds like I'm an asshole. Pretty much we got into a whole argument, he called me an asshole for being lithromantic, and i called him homophobic. Overall he made me feel shitty for being lithromantic
No, your brother should look in the mirror. Also, I can't remember what lithromantic is, but I do know when I first heard of it my first thought was lilith who's like this demon person thing. Anyways she's really pretty so yea reply
Ok I’ve seen 2 definitions of lithromantics, one is the more prevalent one, but I think both are valid.
https://aromantic.fandom.com/wiki/Lithromantic#:~:text=Lithromantic%20(also%20known%20as%20akoiromantic,without%20the%20desire%20for%20reciprocation
First definition:
Lithromantics can fall for someone, but their interest wanes as soon as thei...... reply
Everyone who said yes I am an asshole, it's totally understandable, but it's kind of different?? I can like people romantically, but when the feeling is reciprocated, I feel like I'm suffocating and I feel extremely uncomfortable. To sum it up, I want something to happen until it happens, but then I lose feelings and I feel uncomfortable. I've only...... 1 reply
This goes for any sexuality and romantic label. They're used when introducing yourself by being transparent when looking for a relationship. And they are just terms used to describe the behavior.
From additional replies it seems that you had an uncomfortable experience. I personally am going through my own struggles in figuring out my own values ...... 1 reply
