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am i aro/ace or were they just bad?
before yall say, this is a borderline porn website and why the fuck am i asking this here- i know and i dont have anyone to share about this so bare with me.
made out with a guy. got felt up and all. didnt get turned on rather he was the only who was rearing to go. and again, got into a rs but that lasted only 2 weeks because i didnt feel it (great guy though). these were only two examples but happens multiple times. i just lose interest? or like the motivation to maintain it? (sounds like huge red flag thing but i dont know im just so mad at myself because i feel like somethings really wrong with how my brain works) and no i dont think im a lesbian.
About this, I wouldn't really put much stock on other people's opinion about your own label. If you are interested in putting a name to your current situation you should do some research independent of other peoples takes.
If you are bothered by your lack of interest in the people you date, have you asked yourself the reason you entered the relati...... 2 reply
Are they marking most of the boxes to keep you turned on. Like things you like done to you or said.
When your in the initial mood ir working up to it, what are your thoughts.
When it takes a down how do you feel.
The case could be you arent actually wanting it in that moment. It could also be you arent having the right buttons pressed.
I'll u...... reply
You could also just be demisexual which yeah is another for of asexualism. I’d say just give it time and if you never get a crush yeah I’d assume so. Demisexual is the best label to use if you have to label yourself because it explains your lack of interest but doesn’t limit you from it either. Obviously, that’s just if you have to label yo...... reply
My situation is quite similar...
I don't like when I'm the one getting touched and if I'm not in the right mood to do it (it happens often) when the other person start feeling pleasure I'm already done. My libido is especially low when with someone I don't know or like as a person in general.
I easily lose interest in a relationship cause when I'm ...... reply
