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do you ever just
do you ever just find new pieces of evidence that make you realise that actually you weren't the person being bullied by others unprompted, but you were the instigator who made the first offence by having made fun of someone without even realising it?
I mean, yeah.
This is a normal part of introspection. Looking back at your actions and situations help you handle them better and be more self-aware. Also helps you navigate social cues you didn’t understand before. Not a lot of people do this because it’s uncomfortable to let go of your pride/ego and acknowledge you acted in a way that was un...... reply
No, I'm no jackass; I'm not a sage but I'm surely not someone without cognizance. Of course I think everyone telling me from I was young even up until my age now that I am very mature for my age or wise, are just very silly people, to me it's just some things are common sense, and if you do certain other things you're just an idiot. For example, yo...... reply
Only have once, back in elementary I was one of those kids who wasn't afraid to fight back against boys and I distinctly remember pinching, stepping, and pulling their hair when they keep on teasing me/pissing me off. There was even one time I pulled one of them by the hair towards the girls bathroom just because they wouldn't stop teasing me (nobo...... 1 reply
yk i think the appropriate or right thing to do when someone offend you is— FIRST talk to them about it, bc maybe they aint meant it, yk some ppl just say shit without thingking about it, instead of immedietly bullying that person talk to them first lol
when other offend me without or with them knowing it, i just let them know that it aint fun,...... reply
I used to start shit with ppl in school and when they'd bring upperclassmen to whoop my ass, I'd feel like a total victim. This happened at least two times.
I used to be a lil bitch reply
Kind of? I used to bully and hit/punch people without knowing that it hurt them a lot but somehow managed to have a lot of friends despite that. I genuinely think they where to scared of me to stop being friends sometimes cause of how violent I was… 1 reply
It depends, shouting I love lesbians and the pussy to my homophobic peers probably wasn't the best course of action to avoid being bullied, but in other instances it's completely unprovoked they just love to pick on shy kids or kids who are different reply
