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How do you get past the fact that some ppl hate you (srs)
Like for example when you're in an important position like (class officers in school, team leads at work etc.) and you know some of the people around you hate you and you know you have your own lapses, how do you get your confidence back? I don't need answers like 'I'm a bad bitch' etc etc like genuinely how I need help
I think the process to 'getting past it' can depend on the circumstance. For example, if you're in some sort of leadership position, you should most definitely take into consideration what others are saying. You don't only represent yourself and youre going to have to continuously work with others, so make sure to at least consider others' inputs. ...... reply
I don't, but I have enough confidence to keep going. "Haters can hate" . However, I advise you not to let it affect you. In your position, you should focus on your work rather than other people's feelings, okay? You should see what celebrities and YouTubers deal with daily. They face hate almost every day, yet they manage to get through it because ...... reply
My advice is to just think of everyone as silly? You have 24 hours in a day and a bitch is using her whole day to hate on YOU? while your out here getting your shit together she’s at home in bed bed rotting looking at your posts or stuff to hate on you is CRAZY just a fucking silly goofball reply
If you're in an important position like you mentioned I think (at least what works for me) is doing your best, not to impress or gain the "love" of those ppl, but to know that is not anything you lack in skills and it's just them and their personal opinions reply
At the end of the day, we're all hateful people. Wither we want to admit it or not. So there isn't really anything you could do to stop it. Sure they might have valid reasons to hate you or maybe they don't.
It doesn't matter because we're all going to be on our death bed one day. Not thinking about the people who hated us but rather all the good ...... reply
Not everyone is going to like you in life thats a fact. Some people are hateful just because, or they do have a legitimate reason but 9 times out of 10 those reasons aren't about you, just reflected through you. If they don't make your life harder or truly affect you in anyway, ignore it and focus on what you need to do and who truly cares for you....... reply
You got to understand, you could do everything your haters want and they will still hate you, and except you are a real piece of shit, not the peoples with actual facts and evidence why should you care, people will hate you for existing, you can hate them back you can not, if your confidence is low it's not because people hate you it because of som...... reply
Something I apply to myself is : people who 'hate' you are just miserable in their life. The ones that are happy don't give their energy to hatred.
And : Do YOU like THEM ?
There was someone, every time I had a conversation with them, I felt like shit. Later on I realized that it wasn't my fault, they were just subtle in not being nice when I trie...... reply
