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Anxious over stupid shit
My friends are like huge shit talkers, mostly for valid shit but there's like this one friend which gets pissy over a lot of small stuff lately, its not often but its often enough that it makes me think of everything I say or do is pissing them off and its horrible. She has said she has been off her meds and I feel like that might be why. Its not like I can say anything either because they are like my bestfriend and I really want to keep this friendship because we've been friends for years and I really love being her friend, but sometimes it just feels like I have to censor myself around them?
Like I was asking another friend about what bls she reads because I learnt she read some and idk if she was joking or not (she struggles with tone) but she went 'really?' and I felt shitty because maybe I was interrupting her or something. She doesn't mind that I read bl that I know of.
She's a really great friend otherwise but like idk how to stop feeling like this or how to bring it up without feeling like I'm attacking her for it.
The very reason your friendship might end is if you don't say anything, say something, set boundaries, that's how a relationship last, if you just let it by and bottle your emotions, you will explode one day, and when that day comes that friendship is over. Just tell them, if they are truly as good as you say they are they will try to understand an...... reply
I think you can phrase it as a question.
Ex: hey, I noticed you’ve been a bit irritated or upset by me when we talk nowadays. I feel like I’m losing you. Did I do something or is someone going on?
You can also verbalized that you value the friendship in the conversation.
Ex: Our friendship is important to me so I wanna work this out, but *...... reply
if u feel u have to limit yourself when you’re with them then that’s not your friend. you should bring it up and if they feel attacked then that’s THEIR problem, not yours. reply
