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18+ question about relationships.
Is it common for partners to fantasize about sex with other people while in a relationship? Is it okay? Would someone be an asshole or insecure for not wanting their partner to do that and even breaking up if they found out they did?
Example. A woman finds out her husband has threesome fantasies. Most people would say a fantasy isn’t always an actual want/plan to do it and it’s not the same as cheating, so it’s not a problem. If the woman is upset or leaves him she’d be an asshole. Is she?
Ummmmmm it really depends on how this fantasy came up? And how it was communicated.
There’s a big difference between having stray thoughts that something would be hot and actively planning it out and doing it in your mind.
Like I’m assuming the husband is including the wife in the threesome fantasy?
Or he put it out there that he just wan...... reply
as you said, is a fantasy, is in the mind... and if the one with the fantasy (idea) doesn't communicate and acts alone the now idea, well that is not good; but if you have good communication, you should be confident in that link with the partner and you should be able yo talk it and look what the partner thinks... maybe will be "yeah! let's do it" ...... reply
In my personal opinion, I think I’d only feel super uncomfortable with it if they were comparing me to this person, or if it was a person they could actually cheat on me with. For example, a coworker would be more concerning than like. A celebrity.
And having the occasional thought is fine, it happens, but if it’s something they’re just freel...... reply
