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18+ question about relationships.
Is it common for partners to fantasize about sex with other people while in a relationship? Is it okay? Would someone be an asshole or insecure for not wanting their partner to do that and even breaking up if they found out they did?
Example. A woman finds out her husband has threesome fantasies. Most people would say a fantasy isn’t always an actual want/plan to do it and it’s not the same as cheating, so it’s not a problem. If the woman is upset or leaves him she’d be an asshole. Is she?
In my personal opinion, I think I’d only feel super uncomfortable with it if they were comparing me to this person, or if it was a person they could actually cheat on me with. For example, a coworker would be more concerning than like. A celebrity.
And having the occasional thought is fine, it happens, but if it’s something they’re just freel...... reply
