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Gay folks, how do you handle having a crush on your friend
Especially sapphics here. I don't want to disturb the friend group dynamic but I am so down bad for her, HALP. Do I just give up? Cause I feel like her feelings are 100% platonic This is so messy, I hate myself. I hate being demiromantic and falling for my friends. Double the dating pool, double the heart break
ideally, say "i have a fat crush on you" and if she ignores, L, if she reciprocates, W;; but what i've historically done is yearn and flirt, get the vibe she's not into me, and slowly drift away 1 reply
If she’s straight then give up, if not then try asking her casually about her ideal type. If she likes you, you’ll know it after that question.Don’t act desperate, if you’re not super hot, most people will get turned off. If you’re this obvious then chances are, everybody knows. reply
The top commenter here is being an ass for no reason, projecting much? Having feelings for your friends doesn't inherently make you a bad friend. It's how you handle it that does. If you keep insisting for a romantic relationship even after the rejection, THAT makes you a problem. Most adults have the capacity to deal with these situations with mat...... reply
Honestly, I did DATE HER YAYYY. Lore was, we were childhood friends ever since we were eleven-twelve. We grew up in the same school btw until highschool sooo yeah we were very close. We bicker and joke alot with each other. Apparently, I was introduced into bl and gl when I was fourteen?? I liked it and introduced some of the bl dramas/manhwas to h...... reply
Bro, don't open this can of worms for me. The flashbacks of 'we just do this stuff during sleepovers sometimes, but we're just best friends and school mates who mess around, but like only when the time is right so I yearn for her for months on end, hoping she breaks up to have rebound sex with me', this shit HURTS! All the times she broke up with n...... reply
If it were me I would go for it. I usually start talking about sex and perverted shit and see how they respond, but I've been lucky in that the girls I was interested in ended up being interested in me too (but that was how I tested the waters). reply
