IDEAL FIRST TIME SEX EXPERIENCE? KINKS AND FETISHES?

A question to all men, women, gays, lesbians, and all other sexes out there: (I'm a female BTW) "If your gonna have your first time having sex, do you want your partner to be an experienced one or a virgin too like you?" Personally, for me i want mine to be an experienced one since given that i don't have any experience myself, so that one of us has an idea on how it's done and i want him to be a good one at that. (is this asking too much for a virgin?) LOLS(≧∀≦) Oh and one more questions: "Do you have any kinks or fetishes? And what are those?" Just curious ╮(￣▽￣)╭ Because honestly, I myself have one or two i want to try in the future if i found a partner that is open to stuff like role-playing and S&M, i just find this activities entertaining and interesting. but i guess that's too early for a first timer ⁄(⁄ ⁄·⁄ω⁄·⁄ ⁄)⁄

Just state your own opinions and ideals down below. No one is gonna judge you here and judgmental is not allowed ヽ(`Д´)ﾉ