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Addicted to yaoi fr somebody help me please!
Im actually so addicted to yaoi that its affecting my life. Like i failed my fcking exams cos i couldnt stay off yaoi. Also even if i had a good day i still stay up late reading yaoi and ruin the next day. The other day i went to one of my favourite bands concert and i loved it but guess what i still needed to read yaoi and i stayed up late reading yaoi again. It literally feels like an addiction bc i sometimes have a few days im like BL sober or sum and i feel like i can accomplish anything but then after a few days im back at it again, reading bl and if i dont read or watch yaoi during these times i like legit get depressed or sum wtf is wrong w me.
Writing this cos im higkenuinely addicted and im a fucking 20 yo in med school and im literally not studying at all whatsoever. Also ive been reading since i was like 12 or 13 yo and its tbh been affecting my school performance since then tho i was still able to do quite well in exams back then cos it was easier.
Please give me some suggestions or advice or just share whatever you want. Thanks!
you need some kind of lock on this website or something, if you read on ur phone set a screen limit, and if you read on some computer you can download an extension that blocks certain manga sites gl twin 2 reply
It's escapism babe the problem isnt the yaoi its whatever stressful situation you are needing to avoid. Maybe med school isnt what you really want to do? Need to reflect on what youre using yaoi to run away from. 1 reply
This happens to me too, I've been reading yaoi for like 4 years now and it fr started to intoxicate me. My grades started to drop but I still did it anyway because I just can't sit still if I know yaoi exists lol. But there was one time I legit didn't read yaoi for months and stayed off of my fav website all together, it happened when I just reduce...... 3 reply
Girl I feel you, and then becoming obsessed with characters/ships on top of it makes it sm worse but at the same time they make me extremely happy and I think I’d die without it all cause of how boring and depressing life would be so I think it’s a fair trade off reply
i dont know anything abt ur situation but i had something similar (started around 12-13, in HS i was a 4.0 student but in college away from home i rotted in my room all day reading yaoi and didn't talk to anyone
im still rotting LMAO but sth that helped me was i got tested for adhd and depression, got on stimulants, and i feel way less glued to ya...... 1 reply
Like somebody said best way is to get tested / therapy, but if you want to tough it out find a healthy way to introduce "disruptions". Get out of the mind. Bath, talking to someone, time yourself (pomodoro technique or get an app that restricts phone access), cleaning your room, walk outside or exercise. Mindless art, crafts etc. Be very intentiona...... 1 reply
