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Is it normal that my Muslim ex kept trying to make me convert?
Okay before i start, idk anything abt the teachings of Islam or about muslims,i'm an atheist but I still think it's nice to know one or two things about different religions to just think about. He was definitely great as a person, really kind and amazing but whenever it was the topic of religion he'd say how he's scared I'd go to hell for not being a muslim..? I would be very taken aback whenever he said that, he'd say the same thing abt his friends like how he doesn't want us to suffer for eternity bc we're not muslims...like I remember I told him I kissed a girl before and then he said "it's fine, if you become a muslim then your sins will be washed away" like??? I never considered it a "sin" in the first place?? Which was surprising considering he has alot of queer friends that I was also friends with.. but when he'd make me learn a thing or two abt the religion it always felt like he wanted to make me feel bad and start being a muslim, it used to weird me out alot considering how he used to keep saying Allah is the ultimate God and he's the one that really exists and that it's better to support that than believing something that might not exist ( just to be clear tbh i didn't agree with him on any of this but I didn't want to argue with him either) One time I just burst at him saying "well if I'm gonna suffer for eternity after my death I might as well do it after I date alot of girls with no regrets" which PISSED him off SO bad that we agreed to never bring up religion in our convos
no, it's not normal. it's very weird and manipulative that he's gaslighting you like this. if you don't convert Islam, you'll be going to hell, nah, this is gaslighting and manipulative. 1 reply