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do men not know what rape is?
i dont think most men understand what rape actually is. alot of men joke about it, also express a wish “to get raped by a hot older woman” oh YOU SO NOT WANT THAT. also, if you want to have sex how is it rape in the first place? do they think rape=being aggressive and getting manhandled? do they equate it to BDSM? share your experiences where you were talking to a man and you realised that "oh. so he doesn't know what rape is”. i feel like the rape culture is too rampant. also, they know JUST FINE what consent and rape is, when they think they're getting *hit on* by an achillean man. i don't understand, do they think women can never be abusers, or groomers or rapists?
something, something under patriarchy the only real kind of sex is penetrative, which indicates dominance and the penetrator asserting their agency over the person being penetrated -> sexual contact and aggression must involve a penis to be valid, so men (the only ones assumed to have and use penises) can dominate women, but a woman can never do th...... 2 reply
I recently saw this news of an Uber driver (Man) who was literally sexually harassed by a woman and God, the amount of men saying he was lucky and "wishes" they were in his position. It was DISGUSTING. These men are so porn-brained that they can't fanthom that it's sexual harassment or grooming when these happens and I feel super bad for the victim...... 2 reply
The men spamming if the roles were reversed every one would be outraged be the same men spamming “he’s so lucky” and “where were teachers at when I was at school”
The roles are reversed and instead of condemning it their supporting it they put their feelings onto that traumatized child
There’s this movie called That’s my boy
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Nobody has a clear understanding of rape because nobody is taught so, even some women don’t realize and don’t report because they didn’t understand the difference between a violation and discomfort. 1 reply
They know what it is. Because they're likely rapists themselves. They'd have raped the woman first if she hadn't raped them. As rapists, they view getting raped by a woman as a reward. And it's not that they don't believe woman can be abusers or groomers or rapists, it's just as rapists themselves who will harm others, they don't view those actions...... 1 reply
When men say “I wish I was raped by an older woman” they’re referring to children that are raped by adult women/ their teachers which would still be rape even if the child “wanted” it (just gross). We truly have the porn industry to thank for all this bull tbh…they think rape is something aggressive so when they don’t do something sex...... reply
No they don't. And they don't care to figure out what it really means. They just think it means an aggressive older woman you're right.
Take the invincible incels for example.
There's a character called Anissa, an extremely strong woman with powers but still a villain, who rapes the main character, Mark in the comic books. And all the men just spa...... reply
im not the best at wording my thoughts but yeah i also think theyre using it in the sense that they want the woman to be aggressive and in charge. men always view the woman as being 'weak and submissive' when having sex so if the woman is in charge they would be 'overpowering them' and that would hurt their fragile masculine egos so instead of call...... reply
Used to have a friend(well, ex but I don't rlly consider him an ex now lol) like that... And the age didn't even matter. He was so obsessed with the idea of some "pretty girl" graping him. At the time, I was rlly too innocent to even understand that he was giving me subtle hints of his fantasies. And he would lowk threaten me that someone else will...... 1 reply
