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is it bad I haven't experienced any form of intimacy at my big ahh age
dude I haven't even been asked out before, held hands, kissed, not even proper eye contact but I have been told by people im attractive and been lowkirkually experienced creepy men of all ages growing up and even now (im 18) and being in uni doesn't help that im constantly around couples and hearing stories of what happened in clubs an shit, im having major FOMO
I am older than you and am in a similar boat. I think it's no big deal. You will naturally feel like doing all that if it's with someone you genuinely like. If not, what even is the point of doing this with randos? No use in getting all that FOMO, it's normal. You'll be fine. Right now you may feel like you're getting too old to not have had your f...... reply
I’ve been at your age and in a similar position (literally a year or two ago LOL), and was preyed on by men on the internet throughout my high school career. To me, my virginity and inexperience was a curse that attracted creeps towards me and i wanted it gone, because surely that would make me less attractive— right???
Although I don’t rea...... 1 reply
first of all, it tots okay! second of all, you JUST 18!!! you can experience love and intimacy when you feel like you really want to and when you see that the person to try it with is right for you. i understand the fomo, i felt it a lot myself, but if it's okay to give an advice from experience, it's better not to be swept by it, taking care of yo...... reply
I am way older than you and is doing great without still not having these experiences. These kinds of concerns are common during your age especially when everyone around you is in a relationship,doing romantic stuff it is natural to feel weird or left out. It's important not to rush into it just for the sake of being in one. If you really want to b...... reply
I'm 25, completed my masters last year and working for job right now. Being older and experienced I feel like I'm in a position to give you some advice. While I had people I liked, I never had a boyfriend. Do I regret it, not at all, as I stayed single by choice. At your age it is very normal to have this FOMO, even I sometimes wonder what it would...... 2 reply
Hey dude, I think you need to stop holding yourself to the timeline that society's set for people (gotta be in relationship in the teens, dream career by mid 20s, marriage by late 20s, children by late 30s, etc.). I promise everyone's figuring their life, love and career path out in their own time. i'm currently almost 29, and i haven't been in a p...... reply
Yo. I am also an 18 year old girl who has never experienced intimacy. I have never been asked out or even experienced a crush on someone. I know how it feels, you feel like you're "missing out" and then you begin to question if you're even attractive. But here is how I've been looking at it lately. I feel like you can have an amazing, fulfilling re...... reply
im 21 and in the same boat. lwk idec honestly. don't date if u don't want to, and i understand the fomo part. but dating isn't worth it, trust, i know i have no experience firsthand, but from all my friends who have dared and all of the stories, it is not worth it no matter how beautiful it looks on the outside. ur chances of being in a best relati...... 1 reply
u're only 18 but if u did have someone u like shoot ur shot i guess, but if u're only forcing yourself just so u can fit in it's not gonna end well. u have to know if u really wanna date cz u want too and u do like them or u just want to flaunt them so u can relate to other ppl, that woul make u an ass pls don't do that. me personally i long stoppe...... reply
You're fine bro, and you're still really young (speaking as a young adult myself). Only matters if you are looking for a relationship, but if there's no one around you you feel attracted to, what's the rush? reply
