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should people who don't love themselves get into a relationship?
I've recently had this conversation with my bsf and we have different opinions. I'll make them short.
hers was : There is no boundary in Love, they can enter a relationship if they want to. Not loving yourself doesn't imply that you can't love anyone.
while mine was that : I don't agree because the most important type of love is SELF-LOVE. Why would you shower someone with the love you can't even give to yourself?
I think neither of us was wrong and we just had different approaches, we didn't agree abt this cause I always ask her opinions.
Can you guys share your thoughts on this one too? I'd love to read them too cause everyone has different opinions, the way I interpreted mine could be wrong to others but I'd like to know
Tbh, I don’t really LOVE the concept of loving yourself. The idea of love itself is abstract, so to limit yourself because of it just seems exaggerated. Even self-esteem can fluctuate depending on mood and other circumstances. People need expectations and boundaries for a successful relationship. You don’t necessarily need to ¨love yourself”...... 1 reply
