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should people who don't love themselves get into a relationship?
I've recently had this conversation with my bsf and we have different opinions. I'll make them short.
hers was : There is no boundary in Love, they can enter a relationship if they want to. Not loving yourself doesn't imply that you can't love anyone.
while mine was that : I don't agree because the most important type of love is SELF-LOVE. Why would you shower someone with the love you can't even give to yourself?
I think neither of us was wrong and we just had different approaches, we didn't agree abt this cause I always ask her opinions.
Can you guys share your thoughts on this one too? I'd love to read them too cause everyone has different opinions, the way I interpreted mine could be wrong to others but I'd like to know
no, almost everyone has normalized the "s/he can fix me/I can fix ___" mindset. It's not your partner’s job to make you love yourself. In this economy, would you really date someone so miserable they can't even give themselves a tiny bit of love? no.
I wouldn't want to date a man who isn't secure with himself, do you exactly love me or are you j...... reply
