I hate pitiful ukes/ukes that can't do no wrong

Why is it common in BL? Why is it that ukes can't do no wrong and it's always the people around the uke that is fucked up? I hate it. I want ukes to be wrong in their own right as well, and be condemned. And if there is some human reasoning for them to be like that, making them not worthy of being fully condemned, I want the same for every other characters as well. I don't want some specially treated, audience pampered ukes, whiles every other character is scrutinized by the readers, I want ukes to face scrutiny as well. I want other characters to be able to be pampered and favored over ukes even when ukes are made out to be spotless innocent creatures, I just find ukes to always be written as innocent and can't do no wrong, or if they do, they are still loved and pampered where other characters aren't given the same, so I hate it. We need a change!!