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Yaoi?
Hope you guys don't mind, but I've always wondered: for straight girls who read yaoi, do you actually masturbate to it? I saw someone say she does, but personally, it doesn't do it for me!
Ok now I'm seeing someone throw the word "fetishization" again without taking any nuance into account.
Yeah, I masturbate to yaoi (I read for both porn and plot) and NO, that does not mean I fetishize real gay men or real gay relationships. Those are two completely different things. I read fictional porn because it's... FICTIONAL PORN!! That is ...... 6 reply
this is when reading yaoi becomes a fetishisation of gay men and gay relationships, if u are actively reading about gay men having sex for your own sexual pleasure thats a fetish and ur weird, if ur reading it bc its entertaining and u enjoy it and u aint flicking the bean to it then its fine
edit : THIS MEANS PEOPLE WHO ONLY READ YAOI TO GET OFF...... 4 reply
sigh… so many prudes here… i feel betrayed. how dare people touch themselves to porn…???!
but seriously, i’m more concerned on how yall never get turned on by smut. i get feral when i read about a sub buff man getting dominated by a girl
wait tho i don’t agree if they ONLY ever read bl to do that, like now that’s fetish af 3 reply
ngl i dont understand how some of yall are surprised/upset ppl masturbate to BL. sexual media (such as yaoi) provokes sexual desires. if someone is aroused from watching gay men have intercourse, its not a fetish, unless that bleeds into their real life perception and treatment of men (especially gay men). you cant automatically call something a "f...... 2 reply
I want God himself to smite me if I masturbate to yaoi EVER. Like I start my yaoi reading by acknowledging that I am on stolen, ancestral homelands of Indigenous nations. reply
This is how I find out most people dont masturbate, I thought it was a universal experience...well im a man and I do get off on yaoi sometimes, I thought it was the same for women? Guess not. ╮(￣▽￣)╭ reply
