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Yaoi?
Hope you guys don't mind, but I've always wondered: for straight girls who read yaoi, do you actually masturbate to it? I saw someone say she does, but personally, it doesn't do it for me!
Ok now I'm seeing someone throw the word "fetishization" again without taking any nuance into account.
Yeah, I masturbate to yaoi (I read for both porn and plot) and NO, that does not mean I fetishize real gay men or real gay relationships. Those are two completely different things. I read fictional porn because it's... FICTIONAL PORN!! That is ...... 6 reply
this is when reading yaoi becomes a fetishisation of gay men and gay relationships, if u are actively reading about gay men having sex for your own sexual pleasure thats a fetish and ur weird, if ur reading it bc its entertaining and u enjoy it and u aint flicking the bean to it then its fine
edit : THIS MEANS PEOPLE WHO ONLY READ YAOI TO GET OFF...... 4 reply
sigh… so many prudes here… i feel betrayed. how dare people touch themselves to porn…???!
but seriously, i’m more concerned on how yall never get turned on by smut. i get feral when i read about a sub buff man getting dominated by a girl
wait tho i don’t agree if they ONLY ever read bl to do that, like now that’s fetish af 3 reply
I want God himself to smite me if I masturbate to yaoi EVER. Like I start my yaoi reading by acknowledging that I am on stolen, ancestral homelands of Indigenous nations. reply
ngl i dont understand how some of yall are surprised ppl masturbate to BL. sexual media (such as yaoi) provokes sexual desires. if someone is aroused from watching gay men have intercourse, its not a fetish, unless that bleeds into their real life perception and treatment of men (especially gay men). you cant automatically call something a "fetish"...... 2 reply
This is how I find out most people dont masturbate, I thought it was a universal experience...well im a man and I do get off on yaoi sometimes, I thought it was the same for women? Guess not. ╮(￣▽￣)╭ reply
I genuinely don't understand how people masturbate to images at all and honestly the few times I've tried masturbation I've never felt anything at all 3 reply
