I just lost all my friends within the span of 30 minutes… basically what had happened was me and my friends were texting in the gc, and one of my friends said let’s play truth or dare. I was up for it cuz it sounded fun and then it was my turn, they asked me truth or dare and obviously I said truth. They asked me what was my biggest secret, so I told them I had a guilty pleasure for BDSM yuri/yaoi. They called me weird and then blocked me. For reference, I live in a very small community with only about 20k people, and my friends are very popular so they probably will tell everyone and now I will be kink shamed. :/ how do I cope with this? (FYI this isn’t a joke)
Seriously ?! They blocked you for that ?! Trust me you are better without them ! I have admit way worst than that in truth or dare and I never lost anyone. Just be proud about it and if anyone make fun of you liking bdsm just laugh and tell them "You really know nothing, huh ? That's cute !"
oh my god what went thru ur head when you said that…. why would u say that .. however i hope they don’t spread rumours abt it, if so, buy a kinky yaoi and put it in one of your friend’s purse. they will be kink shamed as well
Well one of my friends is always joking about how she has a necrophilia kink towards Charlie Kirk so I assumed it would be a safe space for me to say I had a BDSM kink. Unfortunately, it wasn’t. Now I’m being segregated from the normies and treated like I am the joker from DC. I’ll probably buy a gravure magazine in place it in their bag like you said for revenge
Well one of my friends is always joking about how she has a necrophilia kink towards Charlie Kirk so I assumed it would be a safe space for me to say I had a BDSM kink. Unfortunately, it wasn’t. Now I’m bei... sunnyfunnyrunnybunny
okay you know what, it was a sign of mother nature they can stay friends together and be turned on by kirk bitch
It is either that they truly don't understand what consensual bdsm means (and they might be thinking that it is rape since it can be violent) or they were never your friends to begin with if they got so ticked off at such a normal preference....
Yeah what’s weird is that one of my friends friends has a cnc kink so idk why I’m the only one being shamed. Maybe it’s cuz they don’t understand the art of BDSM.
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Seriously ?! They blocked you for that ?! Trust me you are better without them ! I have admit way worst than that in truth or dare and I never lost anyone. Just be proud about it and if anyone make fun of you liking bdsm just laugh and tell them "You really know nothing, huh ? That's cute !"
First rule of truth or dare is to never say the truth
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oh my god what went thru ur head when you said that…. why would u say that .. however i hope they don’t spread rumours abt it, if so, buy a kinky yaoi and put it in one of your friend’s purse. they will be kink shamed as well
Well one of my friends is always joking about how she has a necrophilia kink towards Charlie Kirk so I assumed it would be a safe space for me to say I had a BDSM kink. Unfortunately, it wasn’t. Now I’m being segregated from the normies and treated like I am the joker from DC. I’ll probably buy a gravure magazine in place it in their bag like you said for revenge
okay you know what, it was a sign of mother nature they can stay friends together and be turned on by kirk bitch
You cooked they will now lable you as a pervert and probably a slut
Well I’m both so they aren’t necessarily lying
Ohh and they were okay with that??? I thought your friend group was saints
Yeah, my friends are obviously biased because one of my friends other friend has a cnc kink so idk why I’m being outed
Awee its okay ditch them you can play truth and dare with us
It is either that they truly don't understand what consensual bdsm means (and they might be thinking that it is rape since it can be violent) or they were never your friends to begin with if they got so ticked off at such a normal preference....
Yeah what’s weird is that one of my friends friends has a cnc kink so idk why I’m the only one being shamed. Maybe it’s cuz they don’t understand the art of BDSM.
Why tf would they be so weirded out about consensual bdsm ??? Honestly you can't do much be sad and feel it only time will help you cope with it
Cuz they’re normies *insert eye roll emoji*