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How do y'all deal with parents checking ur phone?
My dad saw meaking a passkey for my iCloud and for some reason he got so suspicious he took my phone and asked me to open it? I said I won't cuz it's my privacy, then I got lectured so bad and it was on my most important exams in life so it ruined my mood so bad as if I'm not already dealing with pressure and stress from them. 2 days after I get my phone but my mom checks my messages cuz they're 100% I'm talking to boys, anyway she checks find nothing.. She probably doesn't believe it cuz every time I'm on my phone she asks who I'm talking to, what I'm watching and it's soo annoying and draining tho I'm still in my exams week. I finished exams 2 days ago and thought i can relax finally but today I wake up to my mom asking me to open my phone cuz she wanna check it with my dad?? I say no so she say no phone then.?? So I deleted every yaoi thing I had on my phone while shes not looking including my chrome and my massage, then my dad comes home and tells me I need to connect my mom to every account I have in all apps and they want access to all my emails..? How do I genuinely escape this shit, mind you they never ask my brother this cuz he's soooo trusty. Even if they dont find yaoi they won't like anything I talk about with my online friends.. Do y'all have tips or smth to help?
Hot take, but if you are a minor, you shouldn't have full privacy. If you use websites like Mangago, then I think your parent should know. It's insane how I see people here aged between 8 and 13. Not only are there predators here, but rape works will literally ruin your outlook on how sex works. being a kid where you start learning stuff. Porn is n...... 3 reply
You seem like a child, so your parents are right to monitor you. The Internet is full of insane, evil, shady shit. You shouldn't even be on THIS SITE, so that's how I know your parents are right not to trust you.
Also, if they paid for ur phone and they are paying ur phone bill, internet bill, etc, you can't really go against their rules.
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Honestly I'd hit them with some research about not respecting their children's privacy infringes on your trust, personal feelings of safety, and privacy. Do some research and present them with a case. Show evidence in the form of printed research articles about it and highlight the professional advice to respect privacy. Lawyer it up. It would also...... reply
Literally last month my father creeped up on me in the middle of the night and tooky phone and lo and behold, I was reading yaoi smut ( I don't even know which one; it was completely by accident) but mind you I live in a Muslim household and I had an emotional breakdown in front of him like i literally got to my knees and begged him to let it go an...... 2 reply
My parents checked it one time in their entire life, it was after I came out as gay. They never searched it again I think I Traumatized them enough reply
Baby you gotta be quiet on the creek
But real talk, as a minor your parents do have a right to know what you’re doing on your phone. I know it sucks and sounds hypocritical, especially because I started reading yaoi and shit at a young age, but that’s just the way it is. I was lucky enough that my parents always assumed I was a goodie, goodie,...... reply
Parents are doing that…? That’s an invasion of privacy. Idk how old you are, but you might need to hide your apps and up the security on it before you can eventually move out and go low contact. They sound controlling. reply
Idk your age but that’s some crazy situation. It’s just an intrusion of privacy and it’s kind of obsessive behaviour. I don’t have any concrete solutions for you but I hope you’re ok in your family because it’s a fck red flag for me. 1 reply
