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People giving negative amount of advice
Idk if it's just me but sometimes I gen feel like on this website whenever someone talks about feeling sad that they can't find a date or they aren't experiencing romance there is always like an array of people giving the most nothing replies.
Always things like "focus on loving yourself first" and "relationships arent that special anyway" and "love will find you when you're not looking for it".
It's the most live laugh love type response ever, do you genuinely think the op hasn't heard all of that before?
And honestly that whole mentality isnt even like real. Like, I was in more relationships and getting hit on more when i was actively suicidal than after i stopped hating myself. Love in fact did not find me when i stopped searching. Genuinely if you have nothing real to say why say anything
The top comment answered this question pretty well. On that note, I will only encourage people to talk about their problems on the forum. It's not just an archive, it's also a community, poorly managed as it may be. As it is, most people who make such posts often lament they don't have anywhere else to talk about these things. More often than not, ...... reply
