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People giving negative amount of advice
Idk if it's just me but sometimes I gen feel like on this website whenever someone talks about feeling sad that they can't find a date or they aren't experiencing romance there is always like an array of people giving the most nothing replies.
Always things like "focus on loving yourself first" and "relationships arent that special anyway" and "love will find you when you're not looking for it".
It's the most live laugh love type response ever, do you genuinely think the op hasn't heard all of that before?
And honestly that whole mentality isnt even like real. Like, I was in more relationships and getting hit on more when i was actively suicidal than after i stopped hating myself. Love in fact did not find me when i stopped searching. Genuinely if you have nothing real to say why say anything
Some people just want to stay miserable huh. Same goes with venting, just don't vent if you're gonna nitpick people who are going out of their way to help or atleast try to. Alternatively, you can still vent, choose to ignore what you don't want to hear and not bitch about not getting the response you want because that's something you get from prof...... reply
