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Yandere vs tsundere
If you had to choose between being in a romantic relationship with a tsundere or a yandere, which would you choose, and why? (Speaking of long term relationships)
There’s no middle ground—you can’t say “both” or choose another deretype. Choose carefully.
Note: and for those of you who is unfamiliar with those terms..
* Tsundere: is Someone who acts cold, harsh, or dismissive toward the person they like but gradually reveals a warm, caring, and affectionate side.
* Yandere: is Someone who appears sweet, loving, and deeply devoted but whose love can become obsessive, possessive, and even dangerous if pushed too far.
In theory a yandere, but if we're speaking in a real life scenario then a tsundere is the only right answer.
As appealing as the thought of someone loving me no matter what I do sounds, I would be putting myself and others around me at risk in a situation like that.
I don't really like tsundere types, but I'd prefer someone who I think hates me a...... reply
Realistically a tsundere.
I find people being too nice to me as fake and literally ran away from any relationship when they show even a implication of toxic behaviors. Id be halfway across the country in a heartbeat if a obsessive mf tried to lovebomb me into a relationship reply
Yandere all the damn way obv. I'd love someone obsessing over me. They can fuck up my social life and mess w my platonic relationships/get jealous about how close I am with my friends and cousins for all I care. I'm mentally ill anyway♡ tsunderes are cute too but I hate mixed signals so...
OR hear me out. A tsundere-turned-yandere omgomgomgomg reply
I've always found tsunderes annoying, and I don't really get along with people who are always on the defensive. I'd have to try really hard to actually see that underneath their bad manners, they usually have a good heart. I think a yandere would be good for me because I’m someone with heavy avoidant attachment, and a yandere would chase after me...... reply
Yk I’m dookie at catching signals so if someone go “it’s not like I like you or anything!!!” Or show me cold behavior, I’m gonna think they hate me lol. Also I can barely even accept it when ppl tell me their feelings straight up let alone hide it
Yandere, my mind been pretty rotted by the romantization of it. In truth it probably isn’...... reply
Idk a tsundere is just an irritating and exhausting person irl but yandere are potential murderers however I can count on an yandere tto never let go no matter what which is a type of commitment I genuinely want cuz everyone always leaves..... reply
