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Do you ever regret dropping your friends?
I recently ended a friendship over something from the past, and I’m honestly a wreck about it She used to talk about me behind my back, and she’s still close with people who bullied me all throughout middle and high school. Weirdly, that never bothered me much since I’ve made peace with them. But she also stood up for me more than once and was genuinely there for me when it counted. Another friend pushed me to cut her off, and I did, but now I’m second guessing everything. Would love to hear other experiences and if anyone’s been through something similar
no I don't, they didnt like me the way I liked them! babe, protect yourself and be selfish, cause at the end it's only you who you should worry about the most! Most of my friendships ended cause I always had to put so much effort while they never did 1 reply
Naw, they can fall in a hole for all I care. But I also only dropped people when they fuck up majorily. Like for example the lastest friend I dropped started dating someone on their 18th birthday at 30. Naw can't trust that bitch especially after he said my niece (7) would grow up to be pretty.
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im guessing you never had other friends who treated you better that’s why youre full of doubt whether dropping the person who bullied you was the right decision. yall may have had a ‘love-hate’ friendship judging by the way she defended you from other people too. very toxic imo because there would be good days and bad days— now you’re co...... reply
Don't regret it , not one bit. You are just second guessing it because you somone who was a part of your daily life is gone so you can feel the empty space. But it's shitty to be friends with somone who was a direct cause of your friends sufferings , even when the friend didn't mind and going behind you back and taking just shows she has no respect...... reply
I blocked one of my bestest friends in January. I dont regret blocking her as she crossed my boundaries multiple times and defend her bf when he harassed one of my friends. But we been friends for 7 years so it hurt really bad and sometimes I think about unblocking her but me having good memories dosent outweigh the bad ones. I just miss who she u...... reply
Yes, I have (though i don't have such a friend like yours no offense lol). Had a fairly recent friendship breakup around late 2024/early 2025. We've been friends for 14 years. Rather than regretting the choice, i guess i regret the way i handled it or how it happened. But i made peace with it because i made that choice for a reason, however faulty....... 1 reply
No lol. Sometimes I think abt how she mightve felt but thats abt it. I've been friends with my bsf like 2 years now and using her as a comparison to that other friendship i broke off, I realized that actual friends would never do some of the stuff she she did to me. It doesn't really matter how minor it may have seemed or if its in the past bcus it...... 1 reply
I was friends with the weird kid. Introvert, self-proclaimed loner. He had niche interests, all of which he dragged me into. I ended up spending 5 years listening to his rambling, forcing myself to read his fanfictions, and putting up with his lack of proactivity. Whenever I set boundries, he would compromise them. Being the person I am, I always g...... reply
Regret? No, not at all.
But sometimes I wish that the person I hung out with every day for almost 7 years would not have gone to Israel and then joined the actual damn IDF, like genuinely wtf
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