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perceived as a loser
i got sexually harassed a bunch of times as a kid and teenagers which is probably normal for most women. it never got to penetration, just touches and sometimes trapping me in a corner so i can’t run.
i don’t know if im wrongly using that as an excuse but intimacy scares me now and i have had a boyfriend because everyone brings up sex at some point. i don’t even want to kiss or anything. the idea disgusts me. i don’t know if i’m being conservative or those experiences made me view sex as disgusting. i don’t know.
but anyways i’m turning 22 this year and everyone keeps asking about my boyfriend and i have none and it feels pathetic. it is pathetic.
It is not pathetic at all, not only have you experienced trauma but you're also only 22, you have time! Although, that doesn't mean you ever need to be in a relationship no matter your age. Please don't feel as though you need romance/sex for a good life because it is seriously overrated in many ways. Focus on the things that truly make you happy i...... reply
