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Would you accept a valid message or criticism even if the messenger is a hypocrite or flawed?
And, if others, people who are not you, are faced with valid criticisms, do you think they should just take it even if the person given the critique is a hypocrite or flawed? Would you reinforce the criticism or critique the hypocritical critic?
Criticism is in the eye of the beholder. Meaning most people are not good at being honest with themselves, specially about themselves. So we tend to take criticism, even constructive criticism, as a personal attack. As negative.
Of course, people do say mean things and do criticize others in bad ways. But it's up to each person to decide how they...... reply