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Opinions on cnc
I’ve been wondering this for a while and talked to a few people about it but I still don’t have a solid opinion on cnc, so please tell me what you think about it. Ik it’s a very controversial kink and I’ve seen people say that it’s fine since it’s just more of an extreme subcategory or whatever of S&M/BDSM and others just finding it gross.
Well it’s consensual roleplay so it’s fine imo. as someone thats somewhat into CNC, I get really icked out by non-con. That is to say, non-con and CNC are very different.
I think CNC (among other things) is just a niche way people safely experiment with complex emotions, unusual scenarios and unconventional ways of feeling good. At the end of ...... reply
what grown adults do in the bedroom consensually and privately (that doesn't involve me personally) doesn't matter. as long as the parties are safe and have everything put in place for comfort, then it shouldn't be debated. the pearl clutching could literally be applied to any plays of S&M/BDSM (being insensitive to people who were tied up hostage...... reply
People love to polarize things when they dont understand them huh. A lot of practices inside BDSM stem from trauma, theyre scenarios that allow people to experience something in an environment where they feel safe. Its not romanticizing rape and also not an "excuse to rape someone"
Vast majority of people into CNC are subs and (out of those) is als...... reply
personally I just don't find it to be a real kink. like if you're willingly doing CNC then you are ALREADY consenting, I don't understand its logic, nor do I find it pleasurable or consumable. plus I find it disrespectful towards actual victims of SA since the way I see it is that you're just romanticizing a crime, like bffr we both KNOW no one fin...... 3 reply
It's just another kink to me. It's a roleplay dynamic and prearranged. There's all sorts of people and circumstances, so i respect it. Not all CNC is rape-play, but all rape-play is CNC. Honestly, i feel like people don't realize just how important and MANDATORY consent, communication, trust, respect and boundaries are to anyone who has some intere...... reply
I get that it's consensual, I get that it's two grown adults doing what they like in their own bedroom but honestly....i feel like misogyny is too ingrained in these kinks to look past reply
idk bruh, i don't understand it. what's the point of sexualizing and romanticizing, for lack of a better word, actual crimes? what's the point of wanting to turn traumatic experiences that have happened and continue to happen to millions of people around the world into your fantasy?? i don't find anything enjoyable or desirable about someone forcin...... reply
Honestly, CNC is tough for me to wrap my head around. I get the appeal, the thrill of being totally overpowered while knowing deep down you’re safe and can hit the brakes anytime with a safeword, it requires absolute trust.
But I also totally get why others find it problematic, or even disrespectful to survivors of real sexual violence. The huge...... reply
I dont personally like the idea of feeding into ur intrusive thoughts because thoughts of rape and stuff are all hyper-sexuality and i believe that the person should get that checked but hey both parties are consenting so whats my issue reply
