What's your least favorite "romantic" act in romances?

Bls/Gls/Hetero or whatever else, i hateeee when one of the characters has family issues and specifically tells their lover they don't want to be in contact with their family but the lover ignores it to save their relationship and the author portrays it as such a big act of love and for their lover well-being. I HATE WHEN BOUNDARIES ARE DISCARDED.