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just wanna vent a lil bit and I have bad English so bear with me
I always dislike it when people think "this top is worse than this top" just because the top has pushover mc, the mc who let things slide, so his wrongdoings aren't really obvious. And then they compare this top to other top, who has mc who literally dislike what he did and complaining about it and then the top went thru heart wenching chasing arc, begging and crying okay. So people think this top is worse than the top who got easily "forgiven" by the mc.
But I personally have different opinion, I'd rather read black/red flag tops going thru regret arc after doing so many questionable thing (obviously, they're gonna be end game anyway, so at least) i wanna see author telling us this is wrong, this top needs emotional torture (or even physical lol) — and then after that, his relationship get better with the mc.
Rather than reading top who's constantly doing unhinged things, make the mc cry, and traumatized but mc just "Whatever, he's not that bad, I like him anyway" he got angry inwardly, but he can't get mad because "well my top is crazy" and the readers will this top is better than the top who went thru hell??? Just because the bottom is a pushover stupid schizophrenic????
For me it's better to went thru the consequences, than not going thru it at all.
What about you if you wanna add or share your thoughts? Dont answer with bullshit like "I'd rather not read both" because this isn't a question for people who dislike reading toxic BL
i love and i really mean LOVE toxic bls but GOOD toxic bls not the ones like reverse thinking, the ones that portray abuse grooming rape or whatever like that correctly and with a realistic story and characters so when smn says "oh yeah rape is normal it's a toxic bl" or justify any bs in the name of toxicity i wanna rip off their fore head
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i've had some thoughts brewing along these lines for ages, so i'm going to vent a little. *w*
you ever heard of how apparently when dogs respond to human speech, they're responding primarily to tone and not to the words? that's at play with how people respond to toxic/abusive characters. it's all in the presentation, rather than the substance.
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For me, it really depends on why the top behaves the way he does toward the uke (or others). Some of their behavior I can understand, while others are just being assholes.
For example, I can understand Minhyung, the top from Dear Teddy Bear, but not Jaekyung from Jinx.
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oh f ur so right lol I do steer clear of some toxic bls because they’re triggering to me but I LOVE REGRET ARCS SO MUCH LIKE YES BABE FUCKIN KNEEL BEFORE THE PERSON U HURT SO MUCH GROVEL U INCOMPETENT FUCK!!!
I love it when they realize “shit, I’m gonna lose him” like “WELL PLAY STUPID GAMES WIN STUPID PRIZES”
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