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what are your thoughts on avoidant people?
what I meant by avoidant people is like when they like the person but they push them away because they are afraid but at the same time they think they don't deserve that person or like they are not enough. so pushing people becomes their defense mechanism.
(not really sure if that's what really is an avoidant, that's why im asking)
its 4:00 am and I can't sleep because I did that exact thing above and I am so regretting it. I was overwhelmed:(
Let's say you had a big wound across your chest and you need medical attention. Someone comes, you think they're going to help, but they just dig their fingers in your wound, making it hurt more. Someone else comes, you think they'll help, and they just ignore you. Someone else comes, you don't think they'll help but they try to treat the wound, th...... reply