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what are your thoughts on avoidant people?
what I meant by avoidant people is like when they like the person but they push them away because they are afraid but at the same time they think they don't deserve that person or like they are not enough. so pushing people becomes their defense mechanism.
(not really sure if that's what really is an avoidant, that's why im asking)
its 4:00 am and I can't sleep because I did that exact thing above and I am so regretting it. I was overwhelmed:(
It's a trauma response to childhood abuse. So children who are often belittled by their parents and who are blamed really often for anything that goes wrong in their family grow up to be avoidant.
So whatever others put you through in the past doesn't define you and you deserve so much better. I hope you learn to love yourself and find a version o...... reply
