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"its fine if its fiction"
its almost like every time i see a bl (its always bl) that has rape in it, a regular person would say smth like "why is there rape," "seme is a horrible person," someone will always reply and say "its just fiction." i need these people to realize the author thought this out, fantasized rape in their head, and decided that their character deserves to go through something like that. personally, i cant even make myself imagine someone getting raped let alone reading it and defending it. its just that horrible. i dont understand how people can genuinely look at a piece of fiction that contains the uke being kidnapped, confined, raped, abused, and think, "its fine because its not real." a VERY REAL person made it.
Sorry if this is long. I think it's pretty silly to just look at it in black or white. And idk if it seems like I'm just defending horrible BL's. But sharing my full opinions would take toooo long.
Tldr: I am a similar stance to OP's side, but I can also understand the other.
I for the most part understand this take. I have a similar stance on th...... 1 reply
To think “This person writes about fucked up shit, they must be a terrible person” is extremely narrow minded, black and white thinking. Obviously to say they’re completely detached would be disingenuous, but shying away from those things won’t make it happen any less. And acting like other people are crazy for thinking very human thoughts ...... reply
A lot of people will disagree with me on this but I honestly don't really care about this topic as much. You guys need to learn to ignore it. I understand it's in a lot of yaoi, but that's why you check the tags. Sometimes it can be tagged wrong, but most of the time its not. I personally don't care about the amounts of more taboo stuff in fiction-...... reply
I think the same way. I mean, reading is a hobby, right? So why would I spend my free time reading something so disturbing, especially when it involves rape? It just doesn't make sense to me. It's like coming home after a terrible day at work, turning on the TV, and watching a showabout horrible things happening to people. Why would I want to spend...... 1 reply
i used to be one of those "its just fiction, don't like don't read" type of person but as time goes by and i look back at how much ive been desensitized to things i read its kinda sad. like we are all too grown to be just using "its fiction, its not real" excuses lol 2 reply
It's a coping mechanism to tell themselves that what they're reading is okay cause it don't involve actual victims and so therefore it's okay to Jack off to it reply
almost like noncon is a thing cus of purity culture lmao. Don't get mad at people for enjoying cnc or rape in stories when it's not their fault society is built to shame them for having sexual urges in the first place.
honestly, most of the cnc i see usually involves some aspect of a person doing what they shouldn't, like a teenage girl in white a...... 3 reply
THATS WHAT IVE BEEN SAYING ONG like if the rape has any plot relevance and isn't romanticised, forgotten/discarded or sexualised in the story its acceptable for me, but most bls often do in fact sexualise and discard it which it what really disgusts me. take jinx and low tide in twilight for example, ml raped mc first thing and they had a family to...... reply
