about crippling anxiety
03 07,2026
Guys i kid you not it is becoming real. I was scrolling through shorts on yt and holy shit almost every other video i watched was AI. How did i know? To be honest, i couldn't even tell at first. Later on when i opened the comments i saw people saying its AI indirectly. It scared me sm cause trust me in some videos you can't even spot anything odd. Idk how many videos i watched which were AI but i just didn't know.
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mine is genuinely : do not eat an entire 5 pack of buldak in a week, especially if u got work or school the next day.
WORST stomach pain of my life. i was laying on the bathroom floor feeling like my intestines were getting fed into a paper shredder while trying to figure out if i was about to shit water, pass out, or both. at one point i started thinking about pregnant women because if this shit isn't even close to labor then holy fuck yall are built out of reinforced concrete or something
tthe next day i had to keep excusing myself at work trying to act normal like i wasn't one stomach cramp away from folding in half in front of everybody while clenching my ass cheeks
learn from my mistake. or not
unless u got a stomach made of cast iron, don't do it. but hey, maybe you're the chosen one. i sure as hell WASN'T
WORST stomach pain of my life. i was laying on the bathroom floor feeling like my intestines were getting fed into a paper shredder while trying to figure out if i was about to shit water, pass out, or both. at one point i started thinking about pregnant women because if this shit isn't even close to labor then holy fuck yall are built out of reinforced concrete or something
tthe next day i had to keep excusing myself at work trying to act normal like i wasn't one stomach cramp away from folding in half in front of everybody while clenching my ass cheeks
learn from my mistake. or not
unless u got a stomach made of cast iron, don't do it. but hey, maybe you're the chosen one. i sure as hell WASN'T
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as a lesbian im so done wit all these fakebians trend. they r obviously just bisexuals likin men even fictional ones counts too n goonin over bl will NEVA be lesbian behavior
Its annoyinnnngggg how this whole “lesbian fujoshi” n “gay himedanshi” thing make it normal to act like same sex attractive popleee love opposit gender?? like lesbians love dick n gay men love vagina?? wtf is that
im seriously had enuf coz i feel like these r the same peopel pushin all that messed up stuff too. prolly same ones who push that men = masc n women = fem bs too. so why da hell we even care bout their opinion anyway. homophobic fakebians who support transing the gay away
Its annoyinnnngggg how this whole “lesbian fujoshi” n “gay himedanshi” thing make it normal to act like same sex attractive popleee love opposit gender?? like lesbians love dick n gay men love vagina?? wtf is that
im seriously had enuf coz i feel like these r the same peopel pushin all that messed up stuff too. prolly same ones who push that men = masc n women = fem bs too. so why da hell we even care bout their opinion anyway. homophobic fakebians who support transing the gay away
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03 07,2026
if peopel is bad for likin incest rpe fiction then dose self procliam lesbian fujosbi is bisexual, self proclaimed straight fudnashi is bisexual, self proclaimed gay himedanshi is bisexual n self proclaimed straight fujoshi is straight.
i been gone a whole year n comin bak seein so many dumb takes everywhere so im jus spittin facts morrreee herrrr b4 i go wathchhhh Enemies With Benefits n my jan jingjing
i make the rules ok?? yes they r bi n yes likin fictional still means u attracted to that gennnnde.
any1 who think diffrent just believe that dumb lesbian masterdoc thing which is totally unrelaiable anyway coz it was written by bi women. look at all the mess it caused smh. Moree fakebianns
i been gone a whole year n comin bak seein so many dumb takes everywhere so im jus spittin facts morrreee herrrr b4 i go wathchhhh Enemies With Benefits n my jan jingjing
i make the rules ok?? yes they r bi n yes likin fictional still means u attracted to that gennnnde.
any1 who think diffrent just believe that dumb lesbian masterdoc thing which is totally unrelaiable anyway coz it was written by bi women. look at all the mess it caused smh. Moree fakebianns
about comic recommendations
03 07,2026
I've posted this in "questions" but I hadn't got any reply so I repost it in the forum cause I'm desperate for new recs
Can someone recommend me some manhwa (as in korean comic, so no manhua or manga) with horror genre and western historical setting
I've read :
1. How to Survive as a Maid in a Horror Game
2. Welcome to the Rose Manor
3. I Was Possessed, but It Became a Ghost Story
4. The Rules of Rose Ivy Manor
I'm not reading "The 100 Curses of Illeston Manor" yet cause it's still on hiatus and I wanna wait for more chapters.
Can someone recommend me some manhwa (as in korean comic, so no manhua or manga) with horror genre and western historical setting
I've read :
1. How to Survive as a Maid in a Horror Game
2. Welcome to the Rose Manor
3. I Was Possessed, but It Became a Ghost Story
4. The Rules of Rose Ivy Manor
I'm not reading "The 100 Curses of Illeston Manor" yet cause it's still on hiatus and I wanna wait for more chapters.
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03 07,2026
I need some advice. Am I wrong for this one? So at the beginning of the year, I met these 2 girls and involved them in my friend group, which only had 3 people including me. (One being one of my friends since 2nd grade, and the other one being my twin sister.) My friend from 2nd grade, let's call her Sobbing. So this kinda all started when Sobbing went on a trip back to her home country for a month. These 2 new girls, Banana and Joy, suddenly got super close to Sobbing. At first, I didn't mind. But then we started getting into arguments. Our first one was because we left to go to the library, and they said they were coming but never came. Then after that, I had class with the 3 of them, and I had the WORST stomach ache, so I wasn't doing my best. The teacher called me out for it, so I told her I had food poisoning. When I went to work with them, I wasn't doing much because I felt like I wanted to vomit. They stopped talking to each other just to tell me to go home if I wasn't feeling well. As I left the room, I broke down in tears because a month ago they all would've dropped me off, and I felt like they only wanted me out. After that, for some reason, we started ignoring each other, which I didn't want, so obviously I was heartbroken. We had class together, and they completely ignored me. They finally talked to us when I asked them what the problem was and accidentally broke down in tears. I remember them telling me that they thought we wanted some space (we being me and my twin sister). While one of them comforted me, I glanced over and saw Sobbing not giving a care in the world. Things were casual for a while after that.
But recently, I walked away from them when they mentioned this TikTok. (It was the trend "These kids at my school. Awful. Have you seen The Outsiders? Call me Ponyboy.") I did this but with ORV and KDJ. So surprisingly, it landed on Joy's fyp, and they teased me for it. I got kinda pissed, so I walked away. (My bad lolol.) They then ignored me again. But then I decided to make up with them by writing a contract like Won Dae's so it'd lighten the mood. But when I got the contract back, they wrote that I had walked away from them 3 times mb homie and that we ignored them first. (We didn't. They sat next to us while we were playing Papa's Burgeria, and when we had to go to class, they just walked away together.) So on Wednesday, during the last lesson of the day, I tried to make up with them by apologising. But I guess God had different ideas that day because Sobbing and Banana asked if the teasing was the problem since I had walked away from them multiple times. So I made a joke trying to lighten the mood by saying, "Oh haha, sorry. That was the apex predator in me walking away from their prey." But they responded with, "That doesn't make any sense." I know damn well that if we weren't arguing, if it didn't make sense, they would've laughed at me because of how stupid it sounded. I got so pissed that I skipped class and did one of my revision maths papers instead. And now they completely ignore me. I'm really pissed because Sobbing over here isn't the best lad out there. She switches up on her day ones, as we can obviously see. Oh, now that I remember, I was asking them if they wanted to go to the mall. One of them said they didn't have money because they were saving up for a con. Totally cool. So I suggested Costco instead because they have really cheap meals there. (I was rejected.) So I even offered to go to the park together, but apparently enjoying nature is too boring now. Then Sobbing said she had no money, which was funny enough since her mum always gives her $50 when she goes out. (Sobbing is also on the greedy side. Once we all went to the library to "study" But there was a mall nearby that we wanted to go to. So my twin had spent her share on makeup, and I spent mine on the ORV novels 2 and 4 and Liptons.
Banana and Joy saw we had no money, so they offered to buy us a meal, which they did. :> So we felt bad and ordered ice cream for all of us except Banana since she's lactose intolerant. Funnily enough, Sobbing didn't pay for shit and just greedily tried to get the biggest serve while insisting she'd pay for the next meal.) P.S. Sobbing is racist! I remember going over to her house when she casually said a racist slur, and when I confronted her about it, she just said, "My house, my rules." Now I don't know what to do next. Can somebody please help?
But recently, I walked away from them when they mentioned this TikTok. (It was the trend "These kids at my school. Awful. Have you seen The Outsiders? Call me Ponyboy.") I did this but with ORV and KDJ. So surprisingly, it landed on Joy's fyp, and they teased me for it. I got kinda pissed, so I walked away. (My bad lolol.) They then ignored me again. But then I decided to make up with them by writing a contract like Won Dae's so it'd lighten the mood. But when I got the contract back, they wrote that I had walked away from them 3 times mb homie and that we ignored them first. (We didn't. They sat next to us while we were playing Papa's Burgeria, and when we had to go to class, they just walked away together.) So on Wednesday, during the last lesson of the day, I tried to make up with them by apologising. But I guess God had different ideas that day because Sobbing and Banana asked if the teasing was the problem since I had walked away from them multiple times. So I made a joke trying to lighten the mood by saying, "Oh haha, sorry. That was the apex predator in me walking away from their prey." But they responded with, "That doesn't make any sense." I know damn well that if we weren't arguing, if it didn't make sense, they would've laughed at me because of how stupid it sounded. I got so pissed that I skipped class and did one of my revision maths papers instead. And now they completely ignore me. I'm really pissed because Sobbing over here isn't the best lad out there. She switches up on her day ones, as we can obviously see. Oh, now that I remember, I was asking them if they wanted to go to the mall. One of them said they didn't have money because they were saving up for a con. Totally cool. So I suggested Costco instead because they have really cheap meals there. (I was rejected.) So I even offered to go to the park together, but apparently enjoying nature is too boring now. Then Sobbing said she had no money, which was funny enough since her mum always gives her $50 when she goes out. (Sobbing is also on the greedy side. Once we all went to the library to "study" But there was a mall nearby that we wanted to go to. So my twin had spent her share on makeup, and I spent mine on the ORV novels 2 and 4 and Liptons.
Banana and Joy saw we had no money, so they offered to buy us a meal, which they did. :> So we felt bad and ordered ice cream for all of us except Banana since she's lactose intolerant. Funnily enough, Sobbing didn't pay for shit and just greedily tried to get the biggest serve while insisting she'd pay for the next meal.) P.S. Sobbing is racist! I remember going over to her house when she casually said a racist slur, and when I confronted her about it, she just said, "My house, my rules." Now I don't know what to do next. Can somebody please help?
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“lesbian” fujoshi r just bisexuals plain n simple. sayin otherwise is messed up coz lesbians dont like men at all even if its just fictional guys thats still attraction to men duh.
n same goes fr “gay” himedanshi too. they r actually bisexuals. “straight” himejoshi? also bisexual. “straight” fudanshi? also bisexual fr. stop lyin bout urselfs.
likin fictional still means u got attraction to it no matter how much u try deny it
n same goes fr “gay” himedanshi too. they r actually bisexuals. “straight” himejoshi? also bisexual. “straight” fudanshi? also bisexual fr. stop lyin bout urselfs.
likin fictional still means u got attraction to it no matter how much u try deny it
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03 07,2026
why alpha women always need a dick or strap just to knock someone up??? this is omegaverse, u can just use the logic scissors n biology logic works same way like how omegaverse bl does duh. i want more yuri omegaverse where alpha gals get other gals preggers just like that no extra stuff needed. anyone want to sign petition??????????
n to whoever mad rn. not everyone likes dick or straps ok?? bl gets to have their whole thing their way but yuri always gotta add that?? it’s actually so sad bein lesbian
Anyone who disagrees with meeeee literally just hates lesbians n wants us to end up with men ..
fujoshit opinions dont count we dont care bout that ur male centered bs.( ̄へ ̄)
n to whoever mad rn. not everyone likes dick or straps ok?? bl gets to have their whole thing their way but yuri always gotta add that?? it’s actually so sad bein lesbian
Anyone who disagrees with meeeee literally just hates lesbians n wants us to end up with men ..
fujoshit opinions dont count we dont care bout that ur male centered bs.( ̄へ ̄)
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03 07,2026
stop shipping straight chars together in straight gacha. Yuri games r failin coz yall prefer headcanon two gals who barely talk n hav bare minimum interaction than actualy play stuff made 4 yuri
implied subtext coded the holy trio of yuribait smh. meanwhile im watchin thai gl n suddenly seeing yuri fans gettin all hate and being called yuritards. its wild yall hype yuribait in games. we need suport underrated yuri so games n manga dont get axed, not waste time on chars who literally got ex husbands lmao.
n why i get hate in 2025 4 sayin 1x½ better than green yuri?? same green yuri that masc bait us if u so obsssed wit femxfem dont ever label fl masc again fr.
anyways suport actual yuri. n lets slander rangrarii too while we at it. go off queen love how u givin homophobes more reason to hate yuri fans n u aint comin back ever. go make straight slop mreee insted u want their money so bad dont care bout us. n yeah we love rangrarii!!!! (๑•ㅂ•)و✧
implied subtext coded the holy trio of yuribait smh. meanwhile im watchin thai gl n suddenly seeing yuri fans gettin all hate and being called yuritards. its wild yall hype yuribait in games. we need suport underrated yuri so games n manga dont get axed, not waste time on chars who literally got ex husbands lmao.
n why i get hate in 2025 4 sayin 1x½ better than green yuri?? same green yuri that masc bait us if u so obsssed wit femxfem dont ever label fl masc again fr.
anyways suport actual yuri. n lets slander rangrarii too while we at it. go off queen love how u givin homophobes more reason to hate yuri fans n u aint comin back ever. go make straight slop mreee insted u want their money so bad dont care bout us. n yeah we love rangrarii!!!! (๑•ㅂ•)و✧
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03 07,2026
What should I do? I've already taken a dog off from school because of my friends. If you haven'tread my post from before, it was how my (ex??)friends started to distance themselves from me, ignoring me, talking shit abt me and leaving me out. Earlier this week I found out they had another gc without me and started talking shit about me there. I'm more angry than upset cause they keep on saying flowery stuff about me to my face but behind my back they call me stuff like "whore" or "slut" when they always say they'd rather confront the person. I restoried one insta post about confrontation in my close friends and somebody sent me a screenshot of one of them saying "idk why she wants us to confront her when we did nothing wrong" LIKE WHATT THE FUCK DO YOU MEAN U DID NOTHING WRONG. Esp this one girl "Nicole". I trusted her sm, I told her most of how I felt and my secrets only to find out she was sending OUR CONVERSATION SCREENSHOTS TO THE PEOPLE I WAS TALKING ABT WHEN SHE HERSELF WAS ALSO TALKING SHIT ABT THEM. I'm glad I'm out of that toxic ass friend group where everybody js talks shit about each other's back. Eu, ik you're reading this, but next time try not to be too male centered and actually focus on your studies. Jeo, you fuck ass gay man, if u have a problem w me say it to my face. Lia, suck my hairy dick and call me john. Cole, I hope karma gets u. You all need to grow tf up cuz everything I said was all true. Eu, you ARE normalizing whatever those weird trope games you're playing, even if you "hate" what they're doing CAUSE YOURE STILL PLAYING THE GAME. Suck my 3 dicks and choke on my pubes.
Edit: this just turned into a whole rant, I'm sorry; but please do give me advice on what I should do, cause I'm afraid I can't think rationally as of now. Open to all advice!(◕ᴗ◕✿)
Edit: this just turned into a whole rant, I'm sorry; but please do give me advice on what I should do, cause I'm afraid I can't think rationally as of now. Open to all advice!(◕ᴗ◕✿)
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03 07,2026
Can we all finally agree on this? Stop hating and dogpiling on “problematic BL” like the ones with heavy themes like abuse, non‑con, toxic dynamics and all that and especially stop dragging it into Jaxx drama like they’re the exact same thing. Non con and racism is not the same. Like stop with the “why are you against Jaxx but okay with noncon BL?” because once again it’s not the same thing at all!
Dark themes are just dark themes. Graphic violence, gore, murder, abuse, even depictions of sexual assault whether you encounter them in BL, in games like GTA, in massive hit shows like Game of Thrones, anywhere at all reading, watching or enjoying these things once again does not mean you support or condone them in real life. They do not actively target real people, and they do not cause tangible, direct harm to anyone living and breathing. Fictionis fiction. Separate it from reality. At the end of the day, it is literally just entertainment.
If we are seriously going to run with you all logic that “if you write rpe / read rpe stuff / enjoy it that means you’re a bad person” then let’s be 100% consistent about it, shall we? Should we cancel, ban and erase every single story ever written that features an evil serial killer? Should we never again be allowed to have main characters who are absolutely terrible human beings, who do unspeakable things, who get away with every single crime and come out on top every time without ever facing a single consequence? Of course we wouldn’t because we all understand perfectly fine in those cases, it’s just a story. It’s just entertainment.
Like there is absolutely absurd double standard here what exactly makes murder so much more “acceptable” to depict and enjoy than noncon is? Take Alice in Borderland for example like Banda is canonically a serial killer even in real world not just in borderland. He is objectively, far more evil than Niragi And yet people will come for Niragi fans throat ten times harder and act like his fandon is the worst thing to ever exist because on top of being a murderer, he is also written as a rpst but Banda is not a rpist, just a murderer. I’m not even a Niragi fan myself, I'm a Chishiya and I just rewatch a day ago and now I'm a Banda fan too but I'm always gonna be depending Niragi fandom because Niragi is nowhere near as purely evil or dangerous as Banda is, yet no one clocking Banda fans. Or if look at AO3 and fanfics in general, why is everyone swarming in packs to hate, report and scream about any fic that contains non‑con but total radio silence when the if there ks fics romanticizing, making the fictional murderers charming, and fanfics where they face absolutely zero consequences for killing people, the exact thing everyone claims they demand for consequences that rpist characters should get. The hypocrisy is actually painful to watch.
Nobody wakes up wanting to kill people just because they enjoy violent games and people get that perfectly fine, and defend it when governments try to ban this stuff, that “it’s just fiction, it doesn’t make us violent.” So why do people automatically side‑eye, call out, and assume anyone who reads or writes non‑con content actually supports or wants that in real life? It’s the exact same logic. We all understand fictional violence doesn’t equal real‑life violence so why hold sexual dark themes to this totally different, impossible standard. It's just entertainment thats all
However there is a huge non negotiable difference between between all of that and RACISM (HOMOPHOBIA TOO, especially that garbage shit where writers deliberately “turn” canon gay or lesbian characters into straight just to “fix” them). These cannot be fiction is fiction shit. These are use to encourage discrimination on marginalized people. This stuff actively hurt real people. Because once again It fuels real‑life discrimination, real prejudice, real violence and real harm, and it actively reinforces the unfair structures that were built to hold people down. That is the line. Discriminatory propaganda.
And while we’re here can we also finally agree to stop generalizing bl genre as whole as nothing but problematic garbage, and acting like abuse and toxicity is literally all BL is ever about, just so you have a convenient excuse to hate the whole category outright? Because let’s be brutally honest what you all doing that is just homophobia. You never see anyone treat shoujo, josei, or any kind of straight‑centred romance or drama this way. Nobody looks at dark romance and goes “oh so ALL straight romance is just abuse and toxicity right?”. Its just once again scream homophobia. You also certainly don’t see women who read and enjoy dark romance getting harassed and hated on 24/7 to the same degree bl fans get for what for consuming the exact same kind of story. Gay people, queer people, BL fans we deserve fuck up stories like straight do. We normalize gay people in media when we don't treat them like we need to have pure cuteyyy rep all the time.
Normalizing gay people in media means we stop treating us like we always need to be pure, sweet, perfect little “cute” representation all the time. Gay characters need to be messy, complicated, flawed, even terrible characters just like straight does. We don’t always have to be soft, wholesome, or “good role models” or characters need to have consequences deserve to exist in stories. Letting us be dark, weird, evil, or anything else is how we actually become normal, not just wanting pure gay rep. You understand right the balance.
Dark themes are just dark themes. Graphic violence, gore, murder, abuse, even depictions of sexual assault whether you encounter them in BL, in games like GTA, in massive hit shows like Game of Thrones, anywhere at all reading, watching or enjoying these things once again does not mean you support or condone them in real life. They do not actively target real people, and they do not cause tangible, direct harm to anyone living and breathing. Fictionis fiction. Separate it from reality. At the end of the day, it is literally just entertainment.
If we are seriously going to run with you all logic that “if you write rpe / read rpe stuff / enjoy it that means you’re a bad person” then let’s be 100% consistent about it, shall we? Should we cancel, ban and erase every single story ever written that features an evil serial killer? Should we never again be allowed to have main characters who are absolutely terrible human beings, who do unspeakable things, who get away with every single crime and come out on top every time without ever facing a single consequence? Of course we wouldn’t because we all understand perfectly fine in those cases, it’s just a story. It’s just entertainment.
Like there is absolutely absurd double standard here what exactly makes murder so much more “acceptable” to depict and enjoy than noncon is? Take Alice in Borderland for example like Banda is canonically a serial killer even in real world not just in borderland. He is objectively, far more evil than Niragi And yet people will come for Niragi fans throat ten times harder and act like his fandon is the worst thing to ever exist because on top of being a murderer, he is also written as a rpst but Banda is not a rpist, just a murderer. I’m not even a Niragi fan myself, I'm a Chishiya and I just rewatch a day ago and now I'm a Banda fan too but I'm always gonna be depending Niragi fandom because Niragi is nowhere near as purely evil or dangerous as Banda is, yet no one clocking Banda fans. Or if look at AO3 and fanfics in general, why is everyone swarming in packs to hate, report and scream about any fic that contains non‑con but total radio silence when the if there ks fics romanticizing, making the fictional murderers charming, and fanfics where they face absolutely zero consequences for killing people, the exact thing everyone claims they demand for consequences that rpist characters should get. The hypocrisy is actually painful to watch.
Nobody wakes up wanting to kill people just because they enjoy violent games and people get that perfectly fine, and defend it when governments try to ban this stuff, that “it’s just fiction, it doesn’t make us violent.” So why do people automatically side‑eye, call out, and assume anyone who reads or writes non‑con content actually supports or wants that in real life? It’s the exact same logic. We all understand fictional violence doesn’t equal real‑life violence so why hold sexual dark themes to this totally different, impossible standard. It's just entertainment thats all
However there is a huge non negotiable difference between between all of that and RACISM (HOMOPHOBIA TOO, especially that garbage shit where writers deliberately “turn” canon gay or lesbian characters into straight just to “fix” them). These cannot be fiction is fiction shit. These are use to encourage discrimination on marginalized people. This stuff actively hurt real people. Because once again It fuels real‑life discrimination, real prejudice, real violence and real harm, and it actively reinforces the unfair structures that were built to hold people down. That is the line. Discriminatory propaganda.
And while we’re here can we also finally agree to stop generalizing bl genre as whole as nothing but problematic garbage, and acting like abuse and toxicity is literally all BL is ever about, just so you have a convenient excuse to hate the whole category outright? Because let’s be brutally honest what you all doing that is just homophobia. You never see anyone treat shoujo, josei, or any kind of straight‑centred romance or drama this way. Nobody looks at dark romance and goes “oh so ALL straight romance is just abuse and toxicity right?”. Its just once again scream homophobia. You also certainly don’t see women who read and enjoy dark romance getting harassed and hated on 24/7 to the same degree bl fans get for what for consuming the exact same kind of story. Gay people, queer people, BL fans we deserve fuck up stories like straight do. We normalize gay people in media when we don't treat them like we need to have pure cuteyyy rep all the time.
Normalizing gay people in media means we stop treating us like we always need to be pure, sweet, perfect little “cute” representation all the time. Gay characters need to be messy, complicated, flawed, even terrible characters just like straight does. We don’t always have to be soft, wholesome, or “good role models” or characters need to have consequences deserve to exist in stories. Letting us be dark, weird, evil, or anything else is how we actually become normal, not just wanting pure gay rep. You understand right the balance.
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Just scrolling through Twitter and found out there are Thai remakes turning originally straight lakorns into queer versions like the BL remake of Love Destiny, and the GL remake of I Wanna Be Sup’Tar. I only caught on that because someone called Love Destiny is basically just “Love Upon a Time” lol
So I’m curious, what do you all actually think about this remake? Are you guys okay with it, or does it bother you?
I was seriously surprised how there’s barely any huge homophobic backlash. I’m so used to seeing massive outrage every time this kind of change happens in Western media. It really feels like Thai lakorn fans are nowhere near as strict or weirdly homophobic about these shit compared to Western audiences. Like maybe now all know about the drama over Francesca’s in Bridgerton, like how people lost it just because Michael became Michaela. And don’t even get me started on the ridiculous amount of homophobic garbage thrown at HBO over ASOIAF, when GRRM himself confirmed those characters were gay like literally years ago like why are western people so mad for no reason even the man is literally fine with it for live-action like HBO getting hate even when they didn't make things up in the games of thrones one turning straight into gay because they are gay according to the author. (GRRM only gets upset when writers mess things up for erasing Maelor and Nettles just to make Rhaenyra look more saintly. It’s so funny how people turn the house of the dragon drama about “turning Rhaenicent into lesbian” when that’s not even what GRRM is actually talking about at all). The difference between how people react to this stuff here versus over in the West is honestly night and day.
That said, I’m still not fully sold on remaking straight stories into queer ones. Even if it’s calmer in Thailand, I’ve seen how changing straight into gay, gas still end up getting so much unnecessary hate because of it. I’ve already run into so many homophobic straight fangirls on Twitter, Reddit, Facebook, TikTok who are obsessed with Michael Sterling and absolutely fuming that he was changed to Michaela. It’s not just lesbian they lash out at, gay guys get dragged into it too because straight people will blame all the gays because they are homophobic. I much rather we just adapt stories that were always written as gay or lesbian from the very start. At least then, even if we still get homophobic hate, the queerness is actually intentional and meant to be there. I'm especially not here for the homophobic takes when the original author is obviously homophobic cough cough looking at you Bridgerton author. I don’t have a problem with Francesca myself , or with remaking or reimagining straight characters in the books as gay in live action but what really bothers me is there are so many way more deserving original BL and GL novel stories out there just waiting to be adapt and poeple keep wasting those opportunities on stuff like this instead and we get unnecessary hate over it
So I’m curious, what do you all actually think about this remake? Are you guys okay with it, or does it bother you?
I was seriously surprised how there’s barely any huge homophobic backlash. I’m so used to seeing massive outrage every time this kind of change happens in Western media. It really feels like Thai lakorn fans are nowhere near as strict or weirdly homophobic about these shit compared to Western audiences. Like maybe now all know about the drama over Francesca’s in Bridgerton, like how people lost it just because Michael became Michaela. And don’t even get me started on the ridiculous amount of homophobic garbage thrown at HBO over ASOIAF, when GRRM himself confirmed those characters were gay like literally years ago like why are western people so mad for no reason even the man is literally fine with it for live-action like HBO getting hate even when they didn't make things up in the games of thrones one turning straight into gay because they are gay according to the author. (GRRM only gets upset when writers mess things up for erasing Maelor and Nettles just to make Rhaenyra look more saintly. It’s so funny how people turn the house of the dragon drama about “turning Rhaenicent into lesbian” when that’s not even what GRRM is actually talking about at all). The difference between how people react to this stuff here versus over in the West is honestly night and day.
That said, I’m still not fully sold on remaking straight stories into queer ones. Even if it’s calmer in Thailand, I’ve seen how changing straight into gay, gas still end up getting so much unnecessary hate because of it. I’ve already run into so many homophobic straight fangirls on Twitter, Reddit, Facebook, TikTok who are obsessed with Michael Sterling and absolutely fuming that he was changed to Michaela. It’s not just lesbian they lash out at, gay guys get dragged into it too because straight people will blame all the gays because they are homophobic. I much rather we just adapt stories that were always written as gay or lesbian from the very start. At least then, even if we still get homophobic hate, the queerness is actually intentional and meant to be there. I'm especially not here for the homophobic takes when the original author is obviously homophobic cough cough looking at you Bridgerton author. I don’t have a problem with Francesca myself , or with remaking or reimagining straight characters in the books as gay in live action but what really bothers me is there are so many way more deserving original BL and GL novel stories out there just waiting to be adapt and poeple keep wasting those opportunities on stuff like this instead and we get unnecessary hate over it
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03 07,2026
I'm genuinely concerned some people don't even question why they read this or that or how consuming that type of media makes them feel. Like, do you guys reflect on what you feed your brain? I've read people say they don't understand why they like reading BL or just any genre in general, have you thought on maybe stop for a sec and ask yourself hmmm i wonder why i like reading this genre sm mmmm maybe bc i enjoy x or y and the way i relate to z.
LIKE?! am i crazy?? Is reading comprehension out of the question if not applied for school textbooks?? Whats the point of learning critical thinking in school when you can't even apply it outside with the stuff you consume daily like pls let's start question why we do the stuff we do and maybe you'll learn more about yourself than you think and idk probably heal something in your core you didnt even realize needed to be healed, like come on guys. And don't come at me saying mimimimi it's not that deep mimimi bc IT is that deep trust me, lets all regain our consciousness, did doomscrolling really fried your brains? PLEASE SAY NO ☹
LIKE?! am i crazy?? Is reading comprehension out of the question if not applied for school textbooks?? Whats the point of learning critical thinking in school when you can't even apply it outside with the stuff you consume daily like pls let's start question why we do the stuff we do and maybe you'll learn more about yourself than you think and idk probably heal something in your core you didnt even realize needed to be healed, like come on guys. And don't come at me saying mimimimi it's not that deep mimimi bc IT is that deep trust me, lets all regain our consciousness, did doomscrolling really fried your brains? PLEASE SAY NO ☹
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03 07,2026
Am I hopefully not the only person here who finds this such type of fujoshi red flag and straight-up disgusted of them? I’m talking about those specific fujoshis who will ONLY ever read or watch BL in manga, manhwa, manhua, novels, anime. Like as a gay man, I never trust people like this. Not even a little bit. Am I not the only who notice how weird they are? Because every single time, without fail, they end up spouting the most homophobic garbage you will ever hear in this fandom.
Twitter users is the biggest offender of this. It is actually unreal how bad it gets over there. I still remember month ago, a certain JBL smutty live‑action project were officially announced. These Jp fujoshi aka apparently the gays "allies" were screaming at the top of their lungs, being so openly homophobic like they saying “We only wanted this kind of content to stay in 2D! Nobody asked for a live‑action adaptation at all! Stop blaming us fujoshis for its existence or saying we supported it. We also think this is gross!”
This is exactly why I always depend live action BL especially the smutty one . Seeing those fujoshi gush and scream and thirst over every smutty mangahuahwa novel then turn around the second live action BL ever dare to act smutty they immediately find it disgusting? Suddenly the smutty is too much or repulsive? Like that is not just a preference, they literally being openly homophobic.
There’s such a difference between these people who only like liveaction BL and people who only like 2d. People who love live action BL or non 2D BL have well ok reasons because they enjoy seeing real acting, genuine chemistry, and raw, heartfelt emotions brought to life by actual human actors . Some of them might even say stupid shit lol like “I only watch thosekind of BL because Anime/magahuahwa felt for kids". But then there are those fujoshi who only stick to 2L BL is justt.... They do it because they genuinely believe real men, real actors, and actual queer people being intimate or in love is disgusting, wrong, or unnatural. To them, only fictional drawings are “clean” and acceptable.
How can they claim to adore stories about men loving men, yet deep down think the real-life version of that love is something dirty to be ashamed of? Do they not hear themselves when they say, “It’s fine in 2d, but gross when actual humans act in a show”? That is open, blatant homophobia. If they treat BL live action and actors like that, imagine how they must look at real gay men!
Those type of people think gayness is nothing more than a pretty fantasy trope made only for their fujoshi entertainment? That the second it steps off the page or out of the cartoon and into real human actor acting it, it suddenly becomes something gross ? It's not ok for them to consume and fetishize BL all day long, yet the people who bring those stories to life or live that love every day get treated like disgusting. Those type of people need to be called out more.
And don’t even ask “what about queer fujoshi who only like 2D?”, I don't trust them either.
They always say the same tired pattern that apparently gay men/intimacy only looks good in fiction, but lesbian love/sex is good both in fiction and real life. I’m so tired of this “gay men are gross in rl, lesbians are so pretty in both” double standard, it’s just repackaged homophobia. People who aren’t gay men calling gay male intimacy disgusting is plain homophobia. If actual gay men said half this stuff we’d be crucified instantly but 2d queer fujoshi likers say it nonstop and nobody bats an eye. Yet their whole profile are 99% yaoi. If they hate us this much, go read yuri instead and leave us alone. We need people to stop fetishizing gay men. Queer identity is no free pass, queer fujoshi absolutely can and is homophobic towards gay men too. At the end of the day, queer or straight, so many 2D only fujoshi are just homophobic.
Twitter users is the biggest offender of this. It is actually unreal how bad it gets over there. I still remember month ago, a certain JBL smutty live‑action project were officially announced. These Jp fujoshi aka apparently the gays "allies" were screaming at the top of their lungs, being so openly homophobic like they saying “We only wanted this kind of content to stay in 2D! Nobody asked for a live‑action adaptation at all! Stop blaming us fujoshis for its existence or saying we supported it. We also think this is gross!”
This is exactly why I always depend live action BL especially the smutty one . Seeing those fujoshi gush and scream and thirst over every smutty mangahuahwa novel then turn around the second live action BL ever dare to act smutty they immediately find it disgusting? Suddenly the smutty is too much or repulsive? Like that is not just a preference, they literally being openly homophobic.
There’s such a difference between these people who only like liveaction BL and people who only like 2d. People who love live action BL or non 2D BL have well ok reasons because they enjoy seeing real acting, genuine chemistry, and raw, heartfelt emotions brought to life by actual human actors . Some of them might even say stupid shit lol like “I only watch thosekind of BL because Anime/magahuahwa felt for kids". But then there are those fujoshi who only stick to 2L BL is justt.... They do it because they genuinely believe real men, real actors, and actual queer people being intimate or in love is disgusting, wrong, or unnatural. To them, only fictional drawings are “clean” and acceptable.
How can they claim to adore stories about men loving men, yet deep down think the real-life version of that love is something dirty to be ashamed of? Do they not hear themselves when they say, “It’s fine in 2d, but gross when actual humans act in a show”? That is open, blatant homophobia. If they treat BL live action and actors like that, imagine how they must look at real gay men!
Those type of people think gayness is nothing more than a pretty fantasy trope made only for their fujoshi entertainment? That the second it steps off the page or out of the cartoon and into real human actor acting it, it suddenly becomes something gross ? It's not ok for them to consume and fetishize BL all day long, yet the people who bring those stories to life or live that love every day get treated like disgusting. Those type of people need to be called out more.
And don’t even ask “what about queer fujoshi who only like 2D?”, I don't trust them either.
They always say the same tired pattern that apparently gay men/intimacy only looks good in fiction, but lesbian love/sex is good both in fiction and real life. I’m so tired of this “gay men are gross in rl, lesbians are so pretty in both” double standard, it’s just repackaged homophobia. People who aren’t gay men calling gay male intimacy disgusting is plain homophobia. If actual gay men said half this stuff we’d be crucified instantly but 2d queer fujoshi likers say it nonstop and nobody bats an eye. Yet their whole profile are 99% yaoi. If they hate us this much, go read yuri instead and leave us alone. We need people to stop fetishizing gay men. Queer identity is no free pass, queer fujoshi absolutely can and is homophobic towards gay men too. At the end of the day, queer or straight, so many 2D only fujoshi are just homophobic.
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03 07,2026
I need some perspective. Recently, someone in my family caused a major financial mess, and my parents strictly asked me to keep it a secret and not tell anyone around us. but because i was so stressed and overwhelmed by the situation, i accidentally vented about it online to a small group of friends in a private Discord server. it was TMI, but i didn't share any real names, ages, or locations, and I immediately deleted the post after an hour once I calmed down.
but now, I feel horribly guilty for breaking my parents' trust. i'm also deeply anxious about whether someone might have screenshotted it, even though my profile doesn't contain any real-life info about me (it's just a typical Discord account). Should I confess to my parents that I slipped up online, or should I just keep it to myself, learn from it, and move on? I'm so lost right now... i feel bad
but now, I feel horribly guilty for breaking my parents' trust. i'm also deeply anxious about whether someone might have screenshotted it, even though my profile doesn't contain any real-life info about me (it's just a typical Discord account). Should I confess to my parents that I slipped up online, or should I just keep it to myself, learn from it, and move on? I'm so lost right now... i feel bad
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03 07,2026
I know that some of ya'll have already done this.. But like, do you guys js trust your poker face when reading yaoi in public or in front of your family/parents? LMAO.
Cuz right now, at this moment while I'm typing, my mom is sitting beside me on the couch.. Though she's super locked in those low-budget chinese dramas and random romance audiobooks, so I'm not worried at all LMAOAOO!!
Js wanna hear ya'lls experience when you had to put on a poker face when reading the BEST parts of yaoi... Cuz I'm abt to master this skill.. Especially if my mom is fking weirded out by my likings for BL/Yaoi..( ˘ ³˘)
Cuz right now, at this moment while I'm typing, my mom is sitting beside me on the couch.. Though she's super locked in those low-budget chinese dramas and random romance audiobooks, so I'm not worried at all LMAOAOO!!
Js wanna hear ya'lls experience when you had to put on a poker face when reading the BEST parts of yaoi... Cuz I'm abt to master this skill.. Especially if my mom is fking weirded out by my likings for BL/Yaoi..( ˘ ³˘)
